Swinger Parties in Loughton

Loughton is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Loughton looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Couples Sex Clubs in Loughton. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Loughton. We don't like profiles without pics. If we read your profile and like it, we will still email you, but we will ask for a pic. We have pics, and we update them every few months. We hate pics that are years old.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Loughton. My wife and I have always had a very active sex life and love to get caught up in fantasies when we make love

How come we can't find any hot single girls that actually want to play on here?

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. There is the nice single guy lookin for Ms. Right, but fuckin multiples in the meantime guy.  These guys are more inclined to find a relationship than to make one if they have been at it very long.  Some of these guys are also in category 2. Most of married folks are of the opinion that you make what you want in a realtionship. The sex map below shows local women to you in Loughton that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Loughton that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in.  Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. We still wonder why profiles, without pictures, are allowed? That will be a good selection to prevent fakers and people who are just curious. We must admit that we don't have recognizable pictures because of that.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. There is the nice single guy lookin for Ms. Right, but fuckin multiples in the meantime guy.  These guys are more inclined to find a relationship than to make one if they have been at it very long.  Some of these guys are also in category 2. Most of married folks are of the opinion that you make what you want in a realtionship. I am seeking advice and knowledge from experienced lifestylers. I am looking for women who in the past would have never considered being part of the "lifestyle" and are now very happy that the swiners are here. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. I am seeking advice and knowledge from experienced lifestylers. I am looking for women who in the past would have never considered being part of the "lifestyle" and are now very happy that the swiners are here.

I think more guys should try anal sex! you straight guys dont know what you are missing! I have been fucked in the arse by girls with strap-on's and bi guys, it feels great and makes for the most intense orgasms! Guys have their 'G' spot located in their ass so any penetration directly stimulates this, there are lots of web sites giving advice for men and women about giving and taking anal sex, just type 'anal sex advice' into google and see!

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. I am seeking advice and knowledge from experienced lifestylers. I am looking for women who in the past would have never considered being part of the "lifestyle" and are now very happy that the swiners are here. My wife and I just got our first invitation to a Voyeur Events party and we are unsure of whether or not we will go.  I have no problem with the idea of her finding pleasure the way your wife did. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. What are your thoughts...Love 'em, hate 'em...Wanna shoot 'em? Do you feel they bring down the life style or add someting positive to it. If you are looking for single guys, does appearence matter as much as performance, or is it simply a hunt for Moby Dick! Are you offended by single guys at events who get too close uninvited or is this a turn on! What is the proper approach, asuming walking over and pulling out your package is not the way...

 I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.  

Couples Sex Clubs in Loughton

Hi all ,we are visiting London in a few weeks and i would like to buy some sexy high heels, and underwear, does anybody know any good sex shops? I LOVE the taste of cum, always swallow it all !!!!! Well, this blog I am writing is to VENT soooooooooo many people write me and I try to respond to every email i get BUT why do some people (you know who you are) not uplaod pictures?

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My suggestion for any one that like to go that way is just go slow, use a lot of foreplay, lube and TLC and will come easy to do.

Women that Love Cum

I am a single female looking for a 3some with a man and a women or 2 women.I am very clean and disease free and looking for the same.I live in the broward area and will travel for the right people I recently had the experience of losing conciousness after a huge series of orgasms. With the last orgasm I passed out, only for a few seconds or so, and then 'came' .

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We don't like profiles without pics. If we read your profile and like it, we will still email you, but we will ask for a pic. We have pics, and we update them every few months. We hate pics that are years old.

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As a man that enjoys giving pleasure, my experience is that after a woman trys it and she enjoys it, she will become "a backdoor addict"........so no, you are not the only one! Those women that haven't try it they do not know what they are missing; the only thing the need is a man that is willing to give them the pleasure they deserve. I am curious how many men are like me and like their wives to have sex with other men?I love for my wife to be a slut. I like to watch her with other guys but also have no problem with her doing this. Looks to me that so many "so-called swingers" are just so desperate to secure whatever they happen to be looking for that, in their narrow mind, swinging is about just that and nothing else, in fact, I am really glad if I do not fit into their picture 🙂

My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in. 

So this covers the swingers sex in Loughton but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

Swallowing is great! But sharing is even better either through french kissing or after sex. One favorite is licking a pussy while it is being fucked. Then when both cum the person licking gets a double treat.  🙂 Lastly if I do decide I am interested in chatting with a single guy with a view to meeting then it depends on how they "behave" when chatting. If they are the kind that are only intersted in seeing pics or wanting a webcam show etc then they have blown it. If they can't hold a conversation unless they are being sleezy then they have blown it. How about long and thick?  I am about 10 and quite thick would you like that?  I personally like all types of ladies but ladies that enjoy anal and especially dp are the best and my favorite.

Couples Sex Clubs in Chelmsford

Chelmsford is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Chelmsford looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Swingers Sex in Chelmsford. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Chelmsford. There is the nice single guy lookin for Ms. Right, but fuckin multiples in the meantime guy.  These guys are more inclined to find a relationship than to make one if they have been at it very long.  Some of these guys are also in category 2. Most of married folks are of the opinion that you make what you want in a realtionship.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Chelmsford. I LOVE the taste of cum, always swallow it all !!!!!

But for lifestylin, single guys could never make a lifestyle.  But couples could.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. Fisting is a great thing, My wife loves to be fisted. Is there any others out there that like to be fisted? The sex map below shows local women to you in Chelmsford that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Chelmsford that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

My husband is an expert with anal sex. I didn't like it either because it hurt at first. Then he taught me how to relax my sphincter and now I can take just about anything in there. I love dp but can't always find the right guys to do it with. Some guys are just so homophobic they can't stand the idea of their cocks being even near other cocks, or brushing up against another one (which sometimes happens with dp). Come on guys - relax ! Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Some single males are quite nice and polite, and we spent quite nice time altogether. Do you never meet nice people in everyday's life? We all know that there are pushy and boring people, but also nice people. We all know how to get rid of  people who bore us. Swinging world is a specific part of the world, so we should know that what happens.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. What is the actual turn on for the Husband /B.F during the swinging proccess ?What do they really like to see /? We have experienced that the single males out there are nice to us at the parties, but after a while they (not all) seem to have gone too far by always being around us or start to doing the chicken (puffing out their chest with attitude for some odd reason), even after we say that we are not interested in single males.  Then sometimes they ask if they can just watch. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. My wife and I have always had a very active sex life and love to get caught up in fantasies when we make love

My husband and I have validated couples who have accepted our validations but have not validated us in both find this to be discourteous, being that a validation proves that we are a real couple.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search. We have experienced that the single males out there are nice to us at the parties, but after a while they (not all) seem to have gone too far by always being around us or start to doing the chicken (puffing out their chest with attitude for some odd reason), even after we say that we are not interested in single males.  Then sometimes they ask if they can just watch. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x

I want to hear from everyone regarding clit and labia size. I'm very often disappointed when I meet a hot woman and start to play with her, only to realize her clit is.

Swingers Sex in Chelmsford

All of us married guys are just a pissed off woman away from being single.  So just being single for a while can only be so bad as a character reference. We have experienced that the single males out there are nice to us at the parties, but after a while they (not all) seem to have gone too far by always being around us or start to doing the chicken (puffing out their chest with attitude for some odd reason), even after we say that we are not interested in single males.  Then sometimes they ask if they can just watch. How come we can't find any hot single girls that actually want to play on here?

Human Cocks

I (Jezabel) do both,,, it all depends how kinky the moment is... it taste good for me... and hell!!! what man does not get turned over his eyeballs with a good, deep, FINISHED in our mouth blow job?...

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I am curious how many men are like me and like their wives to have sex with other men?I love for my wife to be a slut. I like to watch her with other guys but also have no problem with her doing this. We still wonder why profiles, without pictures, are allowed? That will be a good selection to prevent fakers and people who are just curious. We must admit that we don't have recognizable pictures because of that.

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I LOVE the taste of cum, always swallow it all !!!!!

MMF Threesomes

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How come we can't find any hot single girls that actually want to play on here? Well it finally happened while I was gone...but it only took a year and a half of her calling him to come over. I just don't get it. Seems like it would be a no brainer for a guy to meet up with a girl who is offering free no strings sex, especially when the male half is away and has personally talked to the guy and given explicit permission to do as he pleases to his wife. What is the world coming to? Now what are the chances of me finding a female who would meet up with me next month while she is out of town? If my wife can't hardly get anyone to, I must be SOL. My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in. 

It is really funny you mention it. We don't always have the time to set them up very often but when we do we never have any luck. Recently I (he) was out of town for 4 days and she had to stay back and work. There is one guy in paticular that she really wanted to be with and he has said time and time again he would love to but every time he comes up with the dumbest of excuses as to why he can't. 

So this covers the swingers sex in Chelmsford but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

But for lifestylin, single guys could never make a lifestyle.  But couples could. There is the nice single guy lookin for Ms. Right, but fuckin multiples in the meantime guy.  These guys are more inclined to find a relationship than to make one if they have been at it very long.  Some of these guys are also in category 2. Most of married folks are of the opinion that you make what you want in a realtionship. Yes we have had this same problem, we have always thought is was distance, but when we have lived in bigger towns we have had the same problems.  My wife has had the same problem for the last year she has been getting to play while I am gone (no reason both of us should go with sex for a year).

Wife Swapping in Shoeburyness

Shoeburyness is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Shoeburyness looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering FFM Threesomes in Shoeburyness. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Shoeburyness. I am looking for a strap that is comfortable to wear and use. I have wasted money on a couple so far and am looking for suggestions.   There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Shoeburyness. Well, this blog I am writing is to VENT soooooooooo many people write me and I try to respond to every email i get BUT why do some people (you know who you are) not uplaod pictures?

I want to swing but just dont know to get hubby to do it. I need some advice on how to go about asking him with sounding like I am not interested in him anymore lol.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. We don't like profiles without pics. If we read your profile and like it, we will still email you, but we will ask for a pic. We have pics, and we update them every few months. We hate pics that are years old. The sex map below shows local women to you in Shoeburyness that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Shoeburyness that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in.  Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. My husband and I have validated couples who have accepted our validations but have not validated us in both find this to be discourteous, being that a validation proves that we are a real couple. I LOVE the taste of cum, always swallow it all !!!!! And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. My husband and I have validated couples who have accepted our validations but have not validated us in both find this to be discourteous, being that a validation proves that we are a real couple.

Here is the question. Why is it that most all profiles have more pictures of the ladies and NONE of the that we have anything against seeing a sexy lady in a picture.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. My suggestion for any one that like to go that way is just go slow, use a lot of foreplay, lube and TLC and will come easy to do. Hi all ,we are visiting London in a few weeks and i would like to buy some sexy high heels, and underwear, does anybody know any good sex shops? Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. I wish to find some time a lady that really likes it, will be fun for all.

It's true...the back-door is always the best way in. its true that a lot of guys are homophobic and rules them out of an awesome DP....they dont know what theyre missing. I believe it adds an other demension to love-making. 

FFM Threesomes in Shoeburyness

Does anyone else seek partners who are will to swap bareback, ie no condoms. We are clean and std tested, but just wondering if anyone else desires the feeling that only skin to skin can provide. Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home. I want to swing but just dont know to get hubby to do it. I need some advice on how to go about asking him with sounding like I am not interested in him anymore lol.

Cunnilingus (Receiving)

I believe thats because it is the ultimate form of submission and requires an enormous level of trust for a woman to be comfortable in allowing entry or even considering it in the most taboo of places sexually The Key is hygiene-Don't want nasty pathogens interfering with play or health-enemas are excellent for removing unwanted potential accidents and embarrasments

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As a man that enjoys giving pleasure, my experience is that after a woman trys it and she enjoys it, she will become "a backdoor addict"........so no, you are not the only one! Those women that haven't try it they do not know what they are missing; the only thing the need is a man that is willing to give them the pleasure they deserve. Mmmmm Mmmmm Mmmmmm Well another woman who has found intense pleasure from anal sex.Most of the woman I have had the pleasure of intoducing this to have just like you become quite infatuated with orgasming in this manner.It tends to be whole body orgasms that can and do repeat themselves.Yes and from a mans prospective it is quite erotic...

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My wife and I have always had a very active sex life and love to get caught up in fantasies when we make love

Deep Throat

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And to attitude in general; the established scene, clubs, bars, house parties etc. seems to have a strange attitude; single guys are only just tolerated, if ever, they are told how to behave, what to do and when to perform and are often treated worse than a street hooker, and everything is in the hands of the couples who are allowed anything and everything, just because they are a couple, yet the single guys are often the ones actually paying for the party. Strange attitude; what kind of single guys do you expect to meet at a venue like that? 😉 We have a terrible time with last minute, late night booty calls.  We are looking for the perfect, nearby single male to help us out with that! We have slightly better luck with single females and find that couples normally have conflicting schedules or family commitments and require more planning.  That said, we totally understand family must come first.  We are very busy professionals and parents with extremely hectic schedules and so we cannot criticize others, we understand you're busy too! Anal sex require a lot of patience and control, can be painful or orgasmic, and for sure a big man makes it very difficult to start.

Then, she had intercourse (with condom) with a hugely hung male.  Anyway, I actually did not get insecure and was extremely turned on.  I want to do it again, and after getting so into it, she says she felt dirty and never wants to do anything with other people again.  Did any of you ever have this experience and are you as confused and disappointed as I am?  By the way, my wife is extremely hot. 

So this covers the swingers sex in Shoeburyness but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

I guess that  we live in a time now where you can't trust too many people to do what is right or expect that  anymore.  To close I have been a swinger for 20 years and single males were always apart of the lifestyle, and always will be.  I even think that they were the ones that started it as a way to have sex with couples starting back in the time of Rome.    Wow!! that a lot of single guys love and hate from this group.  I have been in a couple and now single guy and I guess I never had a problem with single males being in the swing scene.  It was always up to my lady if she wanted more males involved in our activities. We have a terrible time with last minute, late night booty calls.  We are looking for the perfect, nearby single male to help us out with that! We have slightly better luck with single females and find that couples normally have conflicting schedules or family commitments and require more planning.  That said, we totally understand family must come first.  We are very busy professionals and parents with extremely hectic schedules and so we cannot criticize others, we understand you're busy too!

Swingers Sex in Halstead

Halstead is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Halstead looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Group Sex in Halstead. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Halstead. What are your thoughts...Love 'em, hate 'em...Wanna shoot 'em? Do you feel they bring down the life style or add someting positive to it. If you are looking for single guys, does appearence matter as much as performance, or is it simply a hunt for Moby Dick! Are you offended by single guys at events who get too close uninvited or is this a turn on! What is the proper approach, asuming walking over and pulling out your package is not the way...  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Halstead. A couple between the age 22 and 30 to have a couple swap. we are both  new to the scene and a bit inexperience. we need a couple to share in our adventure. 

Ok we are working on setting up our profile andwere wondering what is ment by completely open. We are brand new and looking for our first experience in thelifestyle and would not be opposed to the idea.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. This is my first time ever on one of these sites.  I took my wife to a Voyeur Events party.  We never did anything like that before.  Aside from some fantasizing, we never did anything out of the ordinary.   After a half hour, she participated in the bondage show, went in the back room and was making out in the nude with another woman while a man sucked her breasts and another man had three fingers inside her.   The sex map below shows local women to you in Halstead that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Halstead that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

Does anyone else seek partners who are will to swap bareback, ie no condoms. We are clean and std tested, but just wondering if anyone else desires the feeling that only skin to skin can provide. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. I like it in principle, but no matter what we do, it is just way too PAINFUL! Is a shame as I like vaginal DP, so am sure that the kinkyness of proper DP is mindblowing physically, and deliciously slutty mentally, but alas, not for me. x  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. You should really have a heart-to-heart with your wife (if you haven't already) to find out what is truly bothering her.  Perhaps she pushed herself too far past her own comfort zone just for your benefit?  I don't doubt that she enjoyed herself (what healthy woman wouldn't?!), but women tend to dwell on and regret things that men can simply put behind them.  Your wife is probably torn in her own mind about the kind of person she is, and did her actions now define her as a "slut".  The obvious negative connotations can be very disturbing for her. Lastly if I do decide I am interested in chatting with a single guy with a view to meeting then it depends on how they "behave" when chatting. If they are the kind that are only intersted in seeing pics or wanting a webcam show etc then they have blown it. If they can't hold a conversation unless they are being sleezy then they have blown it. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry!

I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry!

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. I believe but I think many of other member will agree with me sometimes when we go into different type of sex act, woman think different from man, and I believe that is true about anal sex, for my experience your female partner as to be really involved with you or she really likes it. I want to hear from everyone regarding clit and labia size. I'm very often disappointed when I meet a hot woman and start to play with her, only to realize her clit is. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man.  I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.  

Anal used to be just an occassional thing for us.  Although I enjoy it immensely, it takes patience and the right mood.  I can say, anal gives me incredible, over the top orgasms!  Recently (about two months ago) I finally got to enjoy my first DP and I was completely hooked!  Now I'm looking for a third cock to fill my mouth and then you boys can rotate! LOL.

Group Sex in Halstead

Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x I am an inexperienced female who is interested , but how do I ease into this? Are beginners welcome?  I would hate to offend anyone who may be interested if I find that I'm not completely happy. I believe thats because it is the ultimate form of submission and requires an enormous level of trust for a woman to be comfortable in allowing entry or even considering it in the most taboo of places sexually The Key is hygiene-Don't want nasty pathogens interfering with play or health-enemas are excellent for removing unwanted potential accidents and embarrasments

Fear

All of us married guys are just a pissed off woman away from being single.  So just being single for a while can only be so bad as a character reference.

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Lastly if I do decide I am interested in chatting with a single guy with a view to meeting then it depends on how they "behave" when chatting. If they are the kind that are only intersted in seeing pics or wanting a webcam show etc then they have blown it. If they can't hold a conversation unless they are being sleezy then they have blown it.  I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.  

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My husband is an expert with anal sex. I didn't like it either because it hurt at first. Then he taught me how to relax my sphincter and now I can take just about anything in there. I love dp but can't always find the right guys to do it with. Some guys are just so homophobic they can't stand the idea of their cocks being even near other cocks, or brushing up against another one (which sometimes happens with dp). Come on guys - relax !

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How come we can't find any hot single girls that actually want to play on here? Ok we are working on setting up our profile andwere wondering what is ment by completely open. We are brand new and looking for our first experience in thelifestyle and would not be opposed to the idea. Mmmmm Mmmmm Mmmmmm Well another woman who has found intense pleasure from anal sex.Most of the woman I have had the pleasure of intoducing this to have just like you become quite infatuated with orgasming in this manner.It tends to be whole body orgasms that can and do repeat themselves.Yes and from a mans prospective it is quite erotic...

Mmmmm Mmmmm Mmmmmm Well another woman who has found intense pleasure from anal sex.Most of the woman I have had the pleasure of intoducing this to have just like you become quite infatuated with orgasming in this manner.It tends to be whole body orgasms that can and do repeat themselves.Yes and from a mans prospective it is quite erotic...

So this covers the swingers sex in Halstead but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

Why do some couples advertise for SMs in ther profiles, and ask them to send e-mails, but block them from sending e-mails? I have noticed it more than just a hand full of times.  We like our single guy friends, and there is no better designed sex fun than what two guys can do for one girl.  It's an individual choice thing. Lastly if I do decide I am interested in chatting with a single guy with a view to meeting then it depends on how they "behave" when chatting. If they are the kind that are only intersted in seeing pics or wanting a webcam show etc then they have blown it. If they can't hold a conversation unless they are being sleezy then they have blown it.

Swinger Sex in Walton on the Naze

Walton on the Naze is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Walton on the Naze looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering FMM Threesomes in Walton on the Naze. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Walton on the Naze. My husband and I have validated couples who have accepted our validations but have not validated us in both find this to be discourteous, being that a validation proves that we are a real couple.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Walton on the Naze. I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent.

First of all to the (few?) ignorant people (sorry, I do not see any reason to be polite there 🙂 who believe that swinging is a couples lifestyle; it is all about a state of mind, being single M or F, couple or whatever has absolutely nothing to do with it! Believeing that people change their mindset every time they marry/divorce or otherwise drift in and out of relationships is not really realistic is it?

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. For us to even consider a single guy it firstly depends on the email they have sent, the one liner kind with only cock shots attached get deleted straight away. Then I will look at their profile and if it is one of these profiles where no effort has been made with it and contains a few words and the pics are of his cock from different angles then again it puts me right off. Also we look at the validations these will often tell you alot! The sex map below shows local women to you in Walton on the Naze that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Walton on the Naze that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

Single guys on this site are the same as anything else - some are genuine respectful nice guys and others are a pain in the arse! You can' lump them all together....however, being honest we have come across more that have been a pain in the arse, which is a shame as it often makes it harder for the "nice guys". Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. I want to swing but just dont know to get hubby to do it. I need some advice on how to go about asking him with sounding like I am not interested in him anymore lol.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. In my experience, roughly 70% have swallowed and 30% spit.The most interesting are the women who swallow and then her husband tells me that she never swallows...one even told me that she never gives head... We're looking for women or couple to play dirty with us. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. I am an inexperienced female who is interested , but how do I ease into this? Are beginners welcome?  I would hate to offend anyone who may be interested if I find that I'm not completely happy.

If you don't mind me asking, what is the biggest penis you ladies feel comfortable taking?  I know anal takes time and prep, but does that mean that you will be able to take up to 12 inches. 

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. A quiet rural location, impressive newly built red brick cottage, ample parking, outdoor grounds, playrooms, chillout room, extensive social lounge, Dungeon playroom. photo in our profile pics. Funky house tunes, chilllout, dance, and trance. We still wonder why profiles, without pictures, are allowed? That will be a good selection to prevent fakers and people who are just curious. We must admit that we don't have recognizable pictures because of that. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. We like our single guy friends, and there is no better designed sex fun than what two guys can do for one girl.  It's an individual choice thing.

I recently had the experience of losing conciousness after a huge series of orgasms. With the last orgasm I passed out, only for a few seconds or so, and then 'came' .

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To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂 We met a couple over dinner that were really nice and we ended up back at our place and played.  Everything was fine except the guy had a smoke before we played and that really turned my wife off. Then, she had intercourse (with condom) with a hugely hung male.  Anyway, I actually did not get insecure and was extremely turned on.  I want to do it again, and after getting so into it, she says she felt dirty and never wants to do anything with other people again.  Did any of you ever have this experience and are you as confused and disappointed as I am?  By the way, my wife is extremely hot. 

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I want to hear from everyone regarding clit and labia size. I'm very often disappointed when I meet a hot woman and start to play with her, only to realize her clit is.

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I have been married for almost 10 years and never strayed, but I am finding myself very curious about new things. My husband is 100% straight but I am feeling curious about women. I want to hear from everyone regarding clit and labia size. I'm very often disappointed when I meet a hot woman and start to play with her, only to realize her clit is.

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I like it in principle, but no matter what we do, it is just way too PAINFUL! Is a shame as I like vaginal DP, so am sure that the kinkyness of proper DP is mindblowing physically, and deliciously slutty mentally, but alas, not for me. x

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Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it! I think more guys should try anal sex! you straight guys dont know what you are missing! I have been fucked in the arse by girls with strap-on's and bi guys, it feels great and makes for the most intense orgasms! Guys have their 'G' spot located in their ass so any penetration directly stimulates this, there are lots of web sites giving advice for men and women about giving and taking anal sex, just type 'anal sex advice' into google and see! Wow!! that a lot of single guys love and hate from this group.  I have been in a couple and now single guy and I guess I never had a problem with single males being in the swing scene.  It was always up to my lady if she wanted more males involved in our activities.

There is the nice single guy lookin for Ms. Right, but fuckin multiples in the meantime guy.  These guys are more inclined to find a relationship than to make one if they have been at it very long.  Some of these guys are also in category 2. Most of married folks are of the opinion that you make what you want in a realtionship.

So this covers the swingers sex in Walton on the Naze but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

How many young couples, single females and males are out there it becomes evident when viewing the site that 80% of swingers are over 35 I was wondering how many young swingers are really out there? I believe but I think many of other member will agree with me sometimes when we go into different type of sex act, woman think different from man, and I believe that is true about anal sex, for my experience your female partner as to be really involved with you or she really likes it. A quiet rural location, impressive newly built red brick cottage, ample parking, outdoor grounds, playrooms, chillout room, extensive social lounge, Dungeon playroom. photo in our profile pics. Funky house tunes, chilllout, dance, and trance.

Horny Sluts in Maldon

Maldon is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Maldon looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Swinger Fun in Maldon. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Maldon. I think more guys should try anal sex! you straight guys dont know what you are missing! I have been fucked in the arse by girls with strap-on's and bi guys, it feels great and makes for the most intense orgasms! Guys have their 'G' spot located in their ass so any penetration directly stimulates this, there are lots of web sites giving advice for men and women about giving and taking anal sex, just type 'anal sex advice' into google and see!  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Maldon. Yes we have had this same problem, we have always thought is was distance, but when we have lived in bigger towns we have had the same problems.  My wife has had the same problem for the last year she has been getting to play while I am gone (no reason both of us should go with sex for a year).

Looks to me that so many "so-called swingers" are just so desperate to secure whatever they happen to be looking for that, in their narrow mind, swinging is about just that and nothing else, in fact, I am really glad if I do not fit into their picture 🙂

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. I (Jezabel) do both,,, it all depends how kinky the moment is... it taste good for me... and hell!!! what man does not get turned over his eyeballs with a good, deep, FINISHED in our mouth blow job?... The sex map below shows local women to you in Maldon that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Maldon that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

Well, this blog I am writing is to VENT soooooooooo many people write me and I try to respond to every email i get BUT why do some people (you know who you are) not uplaod pictures? Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. How come we can't find any hot single girls that actually want to play on here?  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. So, I am curious to how many girlies are really bi, and like three-somes or just say they are because it's vogue. Being a Bi-fem, myself, I am amazed at how many fems say they are but when it comes to it don't do it. OK, I know you all are great at giving advice, so I could really use your help.  My wife and I have been really busy with a new business we started, and I want to take her away from it all. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. I think more guys should try anal sex! you straight guys dont know what you are missing! I have been fucked in the arse by girls with strap-on's and bi guys, it feels great and makes for the most intense orgasms! Guys have their 'G' spot located in their ass so any penetration directly stimulates this, there are lots of web sites giving advice for men and women about giving and taking anal sex, just type 'anal sex advice' into google and see!

My husband and I have validated couples who have accepted our validations but have not validated us in both find this to be discourteous, being that a validation proves that we are a real couple.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. How about long and thick?  I am about 10 and quite thick would you like that?  I personally like all types of ladies but ladies that enjoy anal and especially dp are the best and my favorite.

Indeed, we do not feel that ppoint as a real question for us. What happens in the swinging world is more or less similar to what happens elsewhere; Indeed, some single males are pushy because they are interested in meeting couples and are not so delicate when appoaching you. .Did you never met pushy people in everyday's life when they nedd to get something from you (especially for business reasons)?

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We are a couple with no experince in this lifestyle but with a lot of Fantasies. We need some advises to realize our fantasies. Should we hire a call girl to have our first threesome?? Well, that's my two cents!  If you want to open a dialogue, my wife and I are mid-thirties, attractive, healthy, athletic adults who are a step or two behind you.  Perhaps we could compare notes and help each other along?  Hello all, I love to give Anal, at this point of my life I think is my favorite, and in many of my relationship I got in trouble for it because many woman refuse it no matter what.

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Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x

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And to attitude in general; the established scene, clubs, bars, house parties etc. seems to have a strange attitude; single guys are only just tolerated, if ever, they are told how to behave, what to do and when to perform and are often treated worse than a street hooker, and everything is in the hands of the couples who are allowed anything and everything, just because they are a couple, yet the single guys are often the ones actually paying for the party. Strange attitude; what kind of single guys do you expect to meet at a venue like that? 😉 OK, I know you all are great at giving advice, so I could really use your help.  My wife and I have been really busy with a new business we started, and I want to take her away from it all.

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Does anyone else seek partners who are will to swap bareback, ie no condoms. We are clean and std tested, but just wondering if anyone else desires the feeling that only skin to skin can provide.

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Here is the question. Why is it that most all profiles have more pictures of the ladies and NONE of the that we have anything against seeing a sexy lady in a picture. My husband and I have validated couples who have accepted our validations but have not validated us in both find this to be discourteous, being that a validation proves that we are a real couple. All of us married guys are just a pissed off woman away from being single.  So just being single for a while can only be so bad as a character reference.

Girlfriend, you definitely shouldn't have any problems getting any kind of booty call day or night.

So this covers the swingers sex in Maldon but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

Why do some couples advertise for SMs in ther profiles, and ask them to send e-mails, but block them from sending e-mails? I have noticed it more than just a hand full of times.  And to attitude in general; the established scene, clubs, bars, house parties etc. seems to have a strange attitude; single guys are only just tolerated, if ever, they are told how to behave, what to do and when to perform and are often treated worse than a street hooker, and everything is in the hands of the couples who are allowed anything and everything, just because they are a couple, yet the single guys are often the ones actually paying for the party. Strange attitude; what kind of single guys do you expect to meet at a venue like that? 😉 Personally I also think people should not take the piss on people who choose not to post pics as long as they behave correctly.It's their good and hones right not to, for whatever  reason they might have.They pay so they can present their profile the way they please.

Swingers Club in Clackwell

Clackwell is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Clackwell looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Sluts in Clackwell. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Clackwell. I have been married for almost 10 years and never strayed, but I am finding myself very curious about new things. My husband is 100% straight but I am feeling curious about women.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Clackwell. We have been on this sight for about a month now and it seems to us its no different than AFF. I mean we are having no luck hooking up! None seems seriuos, do they just come here and look at pic.

As we go through this sexual adventure, I was wondering (maybe to much time on my hands). What was the most amazing swing experience you have had? 

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. For us to even consider a single guy it firstly depends on the email they have sent, the one liner kind with only cock shots attached get deleted straight away. Then I will look at their profile and if it is one of these profiles where no effort has been made with it and contains a few words and the pics are of his cock from different angles then again it puts me right off. Also we look at the validations these will often tell you alot! The sex map below shows local women to you in Clackwell that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Clackwell that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

I have been married for almost 10 years and never strayed, but I am finding myself very curious about new things. My husband is 100% straight but I am feeling curious about women. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. It's true...the back-door is always the best way in. its true that a lot of guys are homophobic and rules them out of an awesome DP....they dont know what theyre missing. I believe it adds an other demension to love-making.   Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. Are there ever any swinging clubs or events for those of us who are over 18 but still under 21 to play at other than private parties? I have been dying to bring my man to a club environment to play with swingers. Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it! And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. I (Jezabel) do both,,, it all depends how kinky the moment is... it taste good for me... and hell!!! what man does not get turned over his eyeballs with a good, deep, FINISHED in our mouth blow job?...

Anal used to be just an occassional thing for us.  Although I enjoy it immensely, it takes patience and the right mood.  I can say, anal gives me incredible, over the top orgasms!  Recently (about two months ago) I finally got to enjoy my first DP and I was completely hooked!  Now I'm looking for a third cock to fill my mouth and then you boys can rotate! LOL.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. Well, this blog I am writing is to VENT soooooooooo many people write me and I try to respond to every email i get BUT why do some people (you know who you are) not uplaod pictures? There is the nice single guy lookin for Ms. Right, but fuckin multiples in the meantime guy.  These guys are more inclined to find a relationship than to make one if they have been at it very long.  Some of these guys are also in category 2. Most of married folks are of the opinion that you make what you want in a realtionship. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. I LOVE the taste of cum, always swallow it all !!!!!

I am a streight single guy , and really enjoy helping please a girl in a already established relationship. I am willing to go the extra mile in a direction that is turning her on. 

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Well it finally happened while I was gone...but it only took a year and a half of her calling him to come over. I just don't get it. Seems like it would be a no brainer for a guy to meet up with a girl who is offering free no strings sex, especially when the male half is away and has personally talked to the guy and given explicit permission to do as he pleases to his wife. What is the world coming to? Now what are the chances of me finding a female who would meet up with me next month while she is out of town? If my wife can't hardly get anyone to, I must be SOL. Some single males are quite nice and polite, and we spent quite nice time altogether. Do you never meet nice people in everyday's life? We all know that there are pushy and boring people, but also nice people. We all know how to get rid of  people who bore us. Swinging world is a specific part of the world, so we should know that what happens. Girlfriend, you definitely shouldn't have any problems getting any kind of booty call day or night.

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We have been in the lifestyle a little under 2 years. We always make sure our profile is accurate . By this I mean that our weights , ages, and pictures are truthful and  current.

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Let you wife know how much you love her, how much you enjoyed participating in her pleasure, and that her actions do not at all change who she is.  She is simply a healthy, beautiful, adult woman who lived out her wildest fantasies one evening.  Encourage her to come clean about any part of the evening that she either regrets or didn't truly enjoy.  Perhaps the man with the three fingers inside her was a bit creepy, but she was uncomfortable stopping him under the circumstances.  If she knows she is in control, and can engage in only whatever she wants she may be more likely to try one more time.  The key is to not pressure her for a repeat performance.  Maybe next time she'll just want to have sex with you and enjoy the atmosphere?  Maybe she'll want to watch you with another woman?  Either way, let her know that there isn't any pressure for her to outdo herself. Anal used to be just an occassional thing for us.  Although I enjoy it immensely, it takes patience and the right mood.  I can say, anal gives me incredible, over the top orgasms!  Recently (about two months ago) I finally got to enjoy my first DP and I was completely hooked!  Now I'm looking for a third cock to fill my mouth and then you boys can rotate! LOL.

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We still wonder why profiles, without pictures, are allowed? That will be a good selection to prevent fakers and people who are just curious. We must admit that we don't have recognizable pictures because of that.

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To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂 The line that people use that they worry because of discretion is bull. We have children, both small and grown, but we still have pics. The answer to that is easy. LEAVE THE FACE OFF! Someone you know may think it looks like you, but they can't prove it without your face unless you have an identifying body mark, or something. My husband is shy about pics, but we still included one of him dressed. Plus we have others of him in our private pics if someone requests to see more of him. Does anyone else seek partners who are will to swap bareback, ie no condoms. We are clean and std tested, but just wondering if anyone else desires the feeling that only skin to skin can provide.

I want to swing but just dont know to get hubby to do it. I need some advice on how to go about asking him with sounding like I am not interested in him anymore lol.

So this covers the swingers sex in Clackwell but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

For us to even consider a single guy it firstly depends on the email they have sent, the one liner kind with only cock shots attached get deleted straight away. Then I will look at their profile and if it is one of these profiles where no effort has been made with it and contains a few words and the pics are of his cock from different angles then again it puts me right off. Also we look at the validations these will often tell you alot! Also it is important for them to show Mr Horny some respect as if he is not happy then I'm not happy and vice versa. But there is the deliberate perpetually single but still wanting pussy guy.  These guys harvest and walk, which does not do a lot to make a supply of secure fun women in the world.

Sluts in South Benfleet

South Benfleet is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in South Benfleet looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Swinging Sex in South Benfleet. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in South Benfleet. I have been married for almost 10 years and never strayed, but I am finding myself very curious about new things. My husband is 100% straight but I am feeling curious about women.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in South Benfleet. Thats one thing we always try to do... Show ourself's as we are... we are here because we don't hide what we are and who we are... we try to up-load new, fun, sexy pics as often  as we can... all for your and our plesure... We feel that if no pic's (real ones) no party... that simple.

What are your thoughts...Love 'em, hate 'em...Wanna shoot 'em? Do you feel they bring down the life style or add someting positive to it. If you are looking for single guys, does appearence matter as much as performance, or is it simply a hunt for Moby Dick! Are you offended by single guys at events who get too close uninvited or is this a turn on! What is the proper approach, asuming walking over and pulling out your package is not the way...

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. Indeed, we do not feel that ppoint as a real question for us. What happens in the swinging world is more or less similar to what happens elsewhere; Indeed, some single males are pushy because they are interested in meeting couples and are not so delicate when appoaching you. .Did you never met pushy people in everyday's life when they nedd to get something from you (especially for business reasons)? The sex map below shows local women to you in South Benfleet that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in South Benfleet that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

Yes we have had this same problem, we have always thought is was distance, but when we have lived in bigger towns we have had the same problems.  My wife has had the same problem for the last year she has been getting to play while I am gone (no reason both of us should go with sex for a year). Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Well, that's my two cents!  If you want to open a dialogue, my wife and I are mid-thirties, attractive, healthy, athletic adults who are a step or two behind you.  Perhaps we could compare notes and help each other along?   Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. Thats one thing we always try to do... Show ourself's as we are... we are here because we don't hide what we are and who we are... we try to up-load new, fun, sexy pics as often  as we can... all for your and our plesure... We feel that if no pic's (real ones) no party... that simple. Let you wife know how much you love her, how much you enjoyed participating in her pleasure, and that her actions do not at all change who she is.  She is simply a healthy, beautiful, adult woman who lived out her wildest fantasies one evening.  Encourage her to come clean about any part of the evening that she either regrets or didn't truly enjoy.  Perhaps the man with the three fingers inside her was a bit creepy, but she was uncomfortable stopping him under the circumstances.  If she knows she is in control, and can engage in only whatever she wants she may be more likely to try one more time.  The key is to not pressure her for a repeat performance.  Maybe next time she'll just want to have sex with you and enjoy the atmosphere?  Maybe she'll want to watch you with another woman?  Either way, let her know that there isn't any pressure for her to outdo herself. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent.

We have been on this sight for about a month now and it seems to us its no different than AFF. I mean we are having no luck hooking up! None seems seriuos, do they just come here and look at pic.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. Let you wife know how much you love her, how much you enjoyed participating in her pleasure, and that her actions do not at all change who she is.  She is simply a healthy, beautiful, adult woman who lived out her wildest fantasies one evening.  Encourage her to come clean about any part of the evening that she either regrets or didn't truly enjoy.  Perhaps the man with the three fingers inside her was a bit creepy, but she was uncomfortable stopping him under the circumstances.  If she knows she is in control, and can engage in only whatever she wants she may be more likely to try one more time.  The key is to not pressure her for a repeat performance.  Maybe next time she'll just want to have sex with you and enjoy the atmosphere?  Maybe she'll want to watch you with another woman?  Either way, let her know that there isn't any pressure for her to outdo herself. We have been on this sight for about a month now and it seems to us its no different than AFF. I mean we are having no luck hooking up! None seems seriuos, do they just come here and look at pic. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. First of all to the (few?) ignorant people (sorry, I do not see any reason to be polite there 🙂 who believe that swinging is a couples lifestyle; it is all about a state of mind, being single M or F, couple or whatever has absolutely nothing to do with it! Believeing that people change their mindset every time they marry/divorce or otherwise drift in and out of relationships is not really realistic is it?

OK, I know you all are great at giving advice, so I could really use your help.  My wife and I have been really busy with a new business we started, and I want to take her away from it all.

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We are a couple with no experince in this lifestyle but with a lot of Fantasies. We need some advises to realize our fantasies. Should we hire a call girl to have our first threesome?? What is the actual turn on for the Husband /B.F during the swinging proccess ?What do they really like to see /? I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent.

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Looks to me that so many "so-called swingers" are just so desperate to secure whatever they happen to be looking for that, in their narrow mind, swinging is about just that and nothing else, in fact, I am really glad if I do not fit into their picture 🙂

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Looks to me that so many "so-called swingers" are just so desperate to secure whatever they happen to be looking for that, in their narrow mind, swinging is about just that and nothing else, in fact, I am really glad if I do not fit into their picture 🙂 A quiet rural location, impressive newly built red brick cottage, ample parking, outdoor grounds, playrooms, chillout room, extensive social lounge, Dungeon playroom. photo in our profile pics. Funky house tunes, chilllout, dance, and trance.

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Just curious about peoples takes on this subject. There is nothing like meeting a couple that is not what they advertise. People need to update their photos - don't you think?

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I am an inexperienced female who is interested , but how do I ease into this? Are beginners welcome?  I would hate to offend anyone who may be interested if I find that I'm not completely happy. There is the nice single guy lookin for Ms. Right, but fuckin multiples in the meantime guy.  These guys are more inclined to find a relationship than to make one if they have been at it very long.  Some of these guys are also in category 2. Most of married folks are of the opinion that you make what you want in a realtionship. A lot of women do not consider it a pleasurable form of sex, because either, their first experinece was not a pleasurable one or because their partners were into pleasing themselves and not taking care for giving her pleasure.

So, I am curious to how many girlies are really bi, and like three-somes or just say they are because it's vogue. Being a Bi-fem, myself, I am amazed at how many fems say they are but when it comes to it don't do it.

So this covers the swingers sex in South Benfleet but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

My husband is an expert with anal sex. I didn't like it either because it hurt at first. Then he taught me how to relax my sphincter and now I can take just about anything in there. I love dp but can't always find the right guys to do it with. Some guys are just so homophobic they can't stand the idea of their cocks being even near other cocks, or brushing up against another one (which sometimes happens with dp). Come on guys - relax ! Some single males are quite nice and polite, and we spent quite nice time altogether. Do you never meet nice people in everyday's life? We all know that there are pushy and boring people, but also nice people. We all know how to get rid of  people who bore us. Swinging world is a specific part of the world, so we should know that what happens. It's true...the back-door is always the best way in. its true that a lot of guys are homophobic and rules them out of an awesome DP....they dont know what theyre missing. I believe it adds an other demension to love-making. 

Horny Sluts in Harlow

Harlow is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Harlow looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Wife Swapping in Harlow. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Harlow. I want to swing but just dont know to get hubby to do it. I need some advice on how to go about asking him with sounding like I am not interested in him anymore lol.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Harlow. I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry!

We are new to the lifestyle and have a problem with hurting peoples feelings, so we'd like to know the best way to excuse ourselves out of partying with a couple we've partied with before.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. In my experience, roughly 70% have swallowed and 30% spit.The most interesting are the women who swallow and then her husband tells me that she never swallows...one even told me that she never gives head... The sex map below shows local women to you in Harlow that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Harlow that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

As we go through this sexual adventure, I was wondering (maybe to much time on my hands). What was the most amazing swing experience you have had?  Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. What is the actual turn on for the Husband /B.F during the swinging proccess ?What do they really like to see /?  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. We have been in the lifestyle a little under 2 years. We always make sure our profile is accurate . By this I mean that our weights , ages, and pictures are truthful and  current. Just curious about peoples takes on this subject. There is nothing like meeting a couple that is not what they advertise. People need to update their photos - don't you think? And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂

I wish to find some time a lady that really likes it, will be fun for all.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. A couple between the age 22 and 30 to have a couple swap. we are both  new to the scene and a bit inexperience. we need a couple to share in our adventure.  Hello all, I love to give Anal, at this point of my life I think is my favorite, and in many of my relationship I got in trouble for it because many woman refuse it no matter what. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. I want to hear from everyone regarding clit and labia size. I'm very often disappointed when I meet a hot woman and start to play with her, only to realize her clit is.

I believe thats because it is the ultimate form of submission and requires an enormous level of trust for a woman to be comfortable in allowing entry or even considering it in the most taboo of places sexually The Key is hygiene-Don't want nasty pathogens interfering with play or health-enemas are excellent for removing unwanted potential accidents and embarrasments

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I like it in principle, but no matter what we do, it is just way too PAINFUL! Is a shame as I like vaginal DP, so am sure that the kinkyness of proper DP is mindblowing physically, and deliciously slutty mentally, but alas, not for me. x I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search. I guess that  we live in a time now where you can't trust too many people to do what is right or expect that  anymore.  To close I have been a swinger for 20 years and single males were always apart of the lifestyle, and always will be.  I even think that they were the ones that started it as a way to have sex with couples starting back in the time of Rome.   

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To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂

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Indeed, we do not feel that ppoint as a real question for us. What happens in the swinging world is more or less similar to what happens elsewhere; Indeed, some single males are pushy because they are interested in meeting couples and are not so delicate when appoaching you. .Did you never met pushy people in everyday's life when they nedd to get something from you (especially for business reasons)? I LOVE the taste of cum, always swallow it all !!!!!

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We have been on this sight for about a month now and it seems to us its no different than AFF. I mean we are having no luck hooking up! None seems seriuos, do they just come here and look at pic.

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I guess that  we live in a time now where you can't trust too many people to do what is right or expect that  anymore.  To close I have been a swinger for 20 years and single males were always apart of the lifestyle, and always will be.  I even think that they were the ones that started it as a way to have sex with couples starting back in the time of Rome.    We have a terrible time with last minute, late night booty calls.  We are looking for the perfect, nearby single male to help us out with that! We have slightly better luck with single females and find that couples normally have conflicting schedules or family commitments and require more planning.  That said, we totally understand family must come first.  We are very busy professionals and parents with extremely hectic schedules and so we cannot criticize others, we understand you're busy too! Hi all ,we are visiting London in a few weeks and i would like to buy some sexy high heels, and underwear, does anybody know any good sex shops?

DP I think a different story, but I think is even more fun.

So this covers the swingers sex in Harlow but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

I am an inexperienced female who is interested , but how do I ease into this? Are beginners welcome?  I would hate to offend anyone who may be interested if I find that I'm not completely happy. I like it in principle, but no matter what we do, it is just way too PAINFUL! Is a shame as I like vaginal DP, so am sure that the kinkyness of proper DP is mindblowing physically, and deliciously slutty mentally, but alas, not for me. x If you don't mind me asking, what is the biggest penis you ladies feel comfortable taking?  I know anal takes time and prep, but does that mean that you will be able to take up to 12 inches. 

Swinging Sex in West Mersea

West Mersea is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in West Mersea looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering No Strings Sex in West Mersea. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in West Mersea. Mmmmm Mmmmm Mmmmmm Well another woman who has found intense pleasure from anal sex.Most of the woman I have had the pleasure of intoducing this to have just like you become quite infatuated with orgasming in this manner.It tends to be whole body orgasms that can and do repeat themselves.Yes and from a mans prospective it is quite erotic...  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in West Mersea. Some single males are quite nice and polite, and we spent quite nice time altogether. Do you never meet nice people in everyday's life? We all know that there are pushy and boring people, but also nice people. We all know how to get rid of  people who bore us. Swinging world is a specific part of the world, so we should know that what happens.

I can have all the fun I want with people I meet in "the real world", outside the organised scene, and the scene hardly accounts for any fun in my life, apart from meeting a few great friends there, in fact, I never knew I was a "problem" as a single guy until I got involved with the scene; rreally says it all, doesn't it?

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. Why would someone be intrested in someone esle that they have no idea what they look like? I mean as superficial as that might sound... We are all here for the same reason and well pictures really help in responses to your emails! I will be honest I do not even open emails with no pictures soooooooooooooo how about uplaoding pictures!!!  The sex map below shows local women to you in West Mersea that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in West Mersea that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

What are your thoughts...Love 'em, hate 'em...Wanna shoot 'em? Do you feel they bring down the life style or add someting positive to it. If you are looking for single guys, does appearence matter as much as performance, or is it simply a hunt for Moby Dick! Are you offended by single guys at events who get too close uninvited or is this a turn on! What is the proper approach, asuming walking over and pulling out your package is not the way... Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. DP I think a different story, but I think is even more fun.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. Mmmmm Mmmmm Mmmmmm Well another woman who has found intense pleasure from anal sex.Most of the woman I have had the pleasure of intoducing this to have just like you become quite infatuated with orgasming in this manner.It tends to be whole body orgasms that can and do repeat themselves.Yes and from a mans prospective it is quite erotic... My wife and I have always had a very active sex life and love to get caught up in fantasies when we make love And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. Anal sex require a lot of patience and control, can be painful or orgasmic, and for sure a big man makes it very difficult to start.

Thats one thing we always try to do... Show ourself's as we are... we are here because we don't hide what we are and who we are... we try to up-load new, fun, sexy pics as often  as we can... all for your and our plesure... We feel that if no pic's (real ones) no party... that simple.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home. Also it is important for them to show Mr Horny some respect as if he is not happy then I'm not happy and vice versa. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. I truly think that size and technique makes a big difference.

I LOVE the taste of cum, always swallow it all !!!!!

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My husband is an expert with anal sex. I didn't like it either because it hurt at first. Then he taught me how to relax my sphincter and now I can take just about anything in there. I love dp but can't always find the right guys to do it with. Some guys are just so homophobic they can't stand the idea of their cocks being even near other cocks, or brushing up against another one (which sometimes happens with dp). Come on guys - relax ! So, I am curious to how many girlies are really bi, and like three-somes or just say they are because it's vogue. Being a Bi-fem, myself, I am amazed at how many fems say they are but when it comes to it don't do it. Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it!

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So, I am curious to how many girlies are really bi, and like three-somes or just say they are because it's vogue. Being a Bi-fem, myself, I am amazed at how many fems say they are but when it comes to it don't do it.

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I like it in principle, but no matter what we do, it is just way too PAINFUL! Is a shame as I like vaginal DP, so am sure that the kinkyness of proper DP is mindblowing physically, and deliciously slutty mentally, but alas, not for me. x You should really have a heart-to-heart with your wife (if you haven't already) to find out what is truly bothering her.  Perhaps she pushed herself too far past her own comfort zone just for your benefit?  I don't doubt that she enjoyed herself (what healthy woman wouldn't?!), but women tend to dwell on and regret things that men can simply put behind them.  Your wife is probably torn in her own mind about the kind of person she is, and did her actions now define her as a "slut".  The obvious negative connotations can be very disturbing for her.

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God did not put those two holes together just so you can pick a women up like a six pack when shes drunk its for fun sue loves it.

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Why would someone be intrested in someone esle that they have no idea what they look like? I mean as superficial as that might sound... We are all here for the same reason and well pictures really help in responses to your emails! I will be honest I do not even open emails with no pictures soooooooooooooo how about uplaoding pictures!!!  I guess that  we live in a time now where you can't trust too many people to do what is right or expect that  anymore.  To close I have been a swinger for 20 years and single males were always apart of the lifestyle, and always will be.  I even think that they were the ones that started it as a way to have sex with couples starting back in the time of Rome.    We have a terrible time with last minute, late night booty calls.  We are looking for the perfect, nearby single male to help us out with that! We have slightly better luck with single females and find that couples normally have conflicting schedules or family commitments and require more planning.  That said, we totally understand family must come first.  We are very busy professionals and parents with extremely hectic schedules and so we cannot criticize others, we understand you're busy too!

Yes we have had this same problem, we have always thought is was distance, but when we have lived in bigger towns we have had the same problems.  My wife has had the same problem for the last year she has been getting to play while I am gone (no reason both of us should go with sex for a year).

So this covers the swingers sex in West Mersea but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

I like it in principle, but no matter what we do, it is just way too PAINFUL! Is a shame as I like vaginal DP, so am sure that the kinkyness of proper DP is mindblowing physically, and deliciously slutty mentally, but alas, not for me. x All of us married guys are just a pissed off woman away from being single.  So just being single for a while can only be so bad as a character reference. First of all to the (few?) ignorant people (sorry, I do not see any reason to be polite there 🙂 who believe that swinging is a couples lifestyle; it is all about a state of mind, being single M or F, couple or whatever has absolutely nothing to do with it! Believeing that people change their mindset every time they marry/divorce or otherwise drift in and out of relationships is not really realistic is it?