Swingers Club in Clackwell

Clackwell is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Clackwell looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Sluts in Clackwell. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Clackwell. Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it!  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Clackwell. For us to even consider a single guy it firstly depends on the email they have sent, the one liner kind with only cock shots attached get deleted straight away. Then I will look at their profile and if it is one of these profiles where no effort has been made with it and contains a few words and the pics are of his cock from different angles then again it puts me right off. Also we look at the validations these will often tell you alot!

Also it is important for them to show Mr Horny some respect as if he is not happy then I'm not happy and vice versa.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. Well, this blog I am writing is to VENT soooooooooo many people write me and I try to respond to every email i get BUT why do some people (you know who you are) not uplaod pictures? The sex map below shows local women to you in Clackwell that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Clackwell that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

First of all to the (few?) ignorant people (sorry, I do not see any reason to be polite there 🙂 who believe that swinging is a couples lifestyle; it is all about a state of mind, being single M or F, couple or whatever has absolutely nothing to do with it! Believeing that people change their mindset every time they marry/divorce or otherwise drift in and out of relationships is not really realistic is it? Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Yes we have had this same problem, we have always thought is was distance, but when we have lived in bigger towns we have had the same problems.  My wife has had the same problem for the last year she has been getting to play while I am gone (no reason both of us should go with sex for a year).  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. Single guys on this site are the same as anything else - some are genuine respectful nice guys and others are a pain in the arse! You can' lump them all together....however, being honest we have come across more that have been a pain in the arse, which is a shame as it often makes it harder for the "nice guys". Let you wife know how much you love her, how much you enjoyed participating in her pleasure, and that her actions do not at all change who she is.  She is simply a healthy, beautiful, adult woman who lived out her wildest fantasies one evening.  Encourage her to come clean about any part of the evening that she either regrets or didn't truly enjoy.  Perhaps the man with the three fingers inside her was a bit creepy, but she was uncomfortable stopping him under the circumstances.  If she knows she is in control, and can engage in only whatever she wants she may be more likely to try one more time.  The key is to not pressure her for a repeat performance.  Maybe next time she'll just want to have sex with you and enjoy the atmosphere?  Maybe she'll want to watch you with another woman?  Either way, let her know that there isn't any pressure for her to outdo herself. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂

I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry!

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search. My husband and I have validated couples who have accepted our validations but have not validated us in both find this to be discourteous, being that a validation proves that we are a real couple. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. Swallowing is great! But sharing is even better either through french kissing or after sex. One favorite is licking a pussy while it is being fucked. Then when both cum the person licking gets a double treat.  🙂

But for lifestylin, single guys could never make a lifestyle.  But couples could.

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Well!  That was a nice comment from a single guy.  I'll be sure to put him on the B list. I am looking for a strap that is comfortable to wear and use. I have wasted money on a couple so far and am looking for suggestions.  The line that people use that they worry because of discretion is bull. We have children, both small and grown, but we still have pics. The answer to that is easy. LEAVE THE FACE OFF! Someone you know may think it looks like you, but they can't prove it without your face unless you have an identifying body mark, or something. My husband is shy about pics, but we still included one of him dressed. Plus we have others of him in our private pics if someone requests to see more of him.

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Hello all, I love to give Anal, at this point of my life I think is my favorite, and in many of my relationship I got in trouble for it because many woman refuse it no matter what.

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We still wonder why profiles, without pictures, are allowed? That will be a good selection to prevent fakers and people who are just curious. We must admit that we don't have recognizable pictures because of that. I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry!

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But the problem with most single guys is that they are too self-absorbed to apply themselves to a relationship for more than a moment, or for more than them getting what they want at a minimum of effort.  Giving them some intimacy can make a woman feel underappreciated. And the women who can take that the best are married, swingers and have a full time devotee to make them happy.

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I (Jezabel) do both,,, it all depends how kinky the moment is... it taste good for me... and hell!!! what man does not get turned over his eyeballs with a good, deep, FINISHED in our mouth blow job?... Just curious about peoples takes on this subject. There is nothing like meeting a couple that is not what they advertise. People need to update their photos - don't you think? Perhaps I am too picky, I don't know but I like to feel as if I am being treated with a bit of respect!

My wife and I have always had a very active sex life and love to get caught up in fantasies when we make love

So this covers the swingers sex in Clackwell but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

Hi all ,we are visiting London in a few weeks and i would like to buy some sexy high heels, and underwear, does anybody know any good sex shops? Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home. I want to hear from everyone regarding clit and labia size. I'm very often disappointed when I meet a hot woman and start to play with her, only to realize her clit is.

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South Benfleet is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in South Benfleet looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Swinging Sex in South Benfleet. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in South Benfleet. I guess that  we live in a time now where you can't trust too many people to do what is right or expect that  anymore.  To close I have been a swinger for 20 years and single males were always apart of the lifestyle, and always will be.  I even think that they were the ones that started it as a way to have sex with couples starting back in the time of Rome.     There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in South Benfleet. We have been on this sight for about a month now and it seems to us its no different than AFF. I mean we are having no luck hooking up! None seems seriuos, do they just come here and look at pic.

Fisting is a great thing, My wife loves to be fisted. Is there any others out there that like to be fisted?

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. And this just doesn't go for single males also, we have been with couples where the other male starts to do the same.  I/we personally don't want a single male in our sex life, but understand many do.  So, we really aren't bothered by them too much as long as understand they don't have a chance with us/me.    The sex map below shows local women to you in South Benfleet that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in South Benfleet that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

I'll volunteer for duty. You should just load up your address book here and you are set. Shoot me an email if you'd like to add me. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Some single males are quite nice and polite, and we spent quite nice time altogether. Do you never meet nice people in everyday's life? We all know that there are pushy and boring people, but also nice people. We all know how to get rid of  people who bore us. Swinging world is a specific part of the world, so we should know that what happens.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. My husband is an expert with anal sex. I didn't like it either because it hurt at first. Then he taught me how to relax my sphincter and now I can take just about anything in there. I love dp but can't always find the right guys to do it with. Some guys are just so homophobic they can't stand the idea of their cocks being even near other cocks, or brushing up against another one (which sometimes happens with dp). Come on guys - relax ! But there is the deliberate perpetually single but still wanting pussy guy.  These guys harvest and walk, which does not do a lot to make a supply of secure fun women in the world. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. The line that people use that they worry because of discretion is bull. We have children, both small and grown, but we still have pics. The answer to that is easy. LEAVE THE FACE OFF! Someone you know may think it looks like you, but they can't prove it without your face unless you have an identifying body mark, or something. My husband is shy about pics, but we still included one of him dressed. Plus we have others of him in our private pics if someone requests to see more of him.

My wife and I have always had a very active sex life and love to get caught up in fantasies when we make love

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x I am curious how many men are like me and like their wives to have sex with other men?I love for my wife to be a slut. I like to watch her with other guys but also have no problem with her doing this. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. Well, that's my two cents!  If you want to open a dialogue, my wife and I are mid-thirties, attractive, healthy, athletic adults who are a step or two behind you.  Perhaps we could compare notes and help each other along? 

Lastly if I do decide I am interested in chatting with a single guy with a view to meeting then it depends on how they "behave" when chatting. If they are the kind that are only intersted in seeing pics or wanting a webcam show etc then they have blown it. If they can't hold a conversation unless they are being sleezy then they have blown it.

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I have been married for almost 10 years and never strayed, but I am finding myself very curious about new things. My husband is 100% straight but I am feeling curious about women. It would seeem to us that there would not be a problem calling up a late night booty call, but there is and belive it or not. It is even difficult to get a single male on short notice these days. Does any one els have this problem? Well it finally happened while I was gone...but it only took a year and a half of her calling him to come over. I just don't get it. Seems like it would be a no brainer for a guy to meet up with a girl who is offering free no strings sex, especially when the male half is away and has personally talked to the guy and given explicit permission to do as he pleases to his wife. What is the world coming to? Now what are the chances of me finding a female who would meet up with me next month while she is out of town? If my wife can't hardly get anyone to, I must be SOL.

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Hey, that was just my .02 - glad I got that off my chest, now go ahead, start yelling and screaming, what do I care; I am doing so much better outside sdc anyway ...

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We still wonder why profiles, without pictures, are allowed? That will be a good selection to prevent fakers and people who are just curious. We must admit that we don't have recognizable pictures because of that. Well, this blog I am writing is to VENT soooooooooo many people write me and I try to respond to every email i get BUT why do some people (you know who you are) not uplaod pictures?

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My husband and I have validated couples who have accepted our validations but have not validated us in both find this to be discourteous, being that a validation proves that we are a real couple.

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Just curious about peoples takes on this subject. There is nothing like meeting a couple that is not what they advertise. People need to update their photos - don't you think? OK, I know you all are great at giving advice, so I could really use your help.  My wife and I have been really busy with a new business we started, and I want to take her away from it all. I'll volunteer for duty. You should just load up your address book here and you are set. Shoot me an email if you'd like to add me.

Let you wife know how much you love her, how much you enjoyed participating in her pleasure, and that her actions do not at all change who she is.  She is simply a healthy, beautiful, adult woman who lived out her wildest fantasies one evening.  Encourage her to come clean about any part of the evening that she either regrets or didn't truly enjoy.  Perhaps the man with the three fingers inside her was a bit creepy, but she was uncomfortable stopping him under the circumstances.  If she knows she is in control, and can engage in only whatever she wants she may be more likely to try one more time.  The key is to not pressure her for a repeat performance.  Maybe next time she'll just want to have sex with you and enjoy the atmosphere?  Maybe she'll want to watch you with another woman?  Either way, let her know that there isn't any pressure for her to outdo herself.

So this covers the swingers sex in South Benfleet but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

I wish to find some time a lady that really likes it, will be fun for all.  I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.   We met a couple over dinner that were really nice and we ended up back at our place and played.  Everything was fine except the guy had a smoke before we played and that really turned my wife off.

Horny Sluts in Harlow

Harlow is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Harlow looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Wife Swapping in Harlow. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Harlow. Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it!  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Harlow. Here is the question. Why is it that most all profiles have more pictures of the ladies and NONE of the that we have anything against seeing a sexy lady in a picture.

But the problem with most single guys is that they are too self-absorbed to apply themselves to a relationship for more than a moment, or for more than them getting what they want at a minimum of effort.  Giving them some intimacy can make a woman feel underappreciated. And the women who can take that the best are married, swingers and have a full time devotee to make them happy.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent. The sex map below shows local women to you in Harlow that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Harlow that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

You should really have a heart-to-heart with your wife (if you haven't already) to find out what is truly bothering her.  Perhaps she pushed herself too far past her own comfort zone just for your benefit?  I don't doubt that she enjoyed herself (what healthy woman wouldn't?!), but women tend to dwell on and regret things that men can simply put behind them.  Your wife is probably torn in her own mind about the kind of person she is, and did her actions now define her as a "slut".  The obvious negative connotations can be very disturbing for her. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. The line that people use that they worry because of discretion is bull. We have children, both small and grown, but we still have pics. The answer to that is easy. LEAVE THE FACE OFF! Someone you know may think it looks like you, but they can't prove it without your face unless you have an identifying body mark, or something. My husband is shy about pics, but we still included one of him dressed. Plus we have others of him in our private pics if someone requests to see more of him.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. Why would someone be intrested in someone esle that they have no idea what they look like? I mean as superficial as that might sound... We are all here for the same reason and well pictures really help in responses to your emails! I will be honest I do not even open emails with no pictures soooooooooooooo how about uplaoding pictures!!!  Wow!! that a lot of single guys love and hate from this group.  I have been in a couple and now single guy and I guess I never had a problem with single males being in the swing scene.  It was always up to my lady if she wanted more males involved in our activities. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. I am curious how many men are like me and like their wives to have sex with other men?I love for my wife to be a slut. I like to watch her with other guys but also have no problem with her doing this.

Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent. Well, this blog I am writing is to VENT soooooooooo many people write me and I try to respond to every email i get BUT why do some people (you know who you are) not uplaod pictures? Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. How about long and thick?  I am about 10 and quite thick would you like that?  I personally like all types of ladies but ladies that enjoy anal and especially dp are the best and my favorite.

Girlfriend, you definitely shouldn't have any problems getting any kind of booty call day or night.

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I wish to find some time a lady that really likes it, will be fun for all. But for lifestylin, single guys could never make a lifestyle.  But couples could. Girlfriend, you definitely shouldn't have any problems getting any kind of booty call day or night.

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Lastly if I do decide I am interested in chatting with a single guy with a view to meeting then it depends on how they "behave" when chatting. If they are the kind that are only intersted in seeing pics or wanting a webcam show etc then they have blown it. If they can't hold a conversation unless they are being sleezy then they have blown it.

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Then, she had intercourse (with condom) with a hugely hung male.  Anyway, I actually did not get insecure and was extremely turned on.  I want to do it again, and after getting so into it, she says she felt dirty and never wants to do anything with other people again.  Did any of you ever have this experience and are you as confused and disappointed as I am?  By the way, my wife is extremely hot.  Mmmmm Mmmmm Mmmmmm Well another woman who has found intense pleasure from anal sex.Most of the woman I have had the pleasure of intoducing this to have just like you become quite infatuated with orgasming in this manner.It tends to be whole body orgasms that can and do repeat themselves.Yes and from a mans prospective it is quite erotic...

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I'll volunteer for duty. You should just load up your address book here and you are set. Shoot me an email if you'd like to add me.

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Mmmmm Mmmmm Mmmmmm Well another woman who has found intense pleasure from anal sex.Most of the woman I have had the pleasure of intoducing this to have just like you become quite infatuated with orgasming in this manner.It tends to be whole body orgasms that can and do repeat themselves.Yes and from a mans prospective it is quite erotic... It's true...the back-door is always the best way in. its true that a lot of guys are homophobic and rules them out of an awesome DP....they dont know what theyre missing. I believe it adds an other demension to love-making.  I am seeking advice and knowledge from experienced lifestylers. I am looking for women who in the past would have never considered being part of the "lifestyle" and are now very happy that the swiners are here.

To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂

So this covers the swingers sex in Harlow but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

Wow!! that a lot of single guys love and hate from this group.  I have been in a couple and now single guy and I guess I never had a problem with single males being in the swing scene.  It was always up to my lady if she wanted more males involved in our activities. There is single and can't keep one guy.  These guys can be okay, but they don't have the skills to keep one, where the above category chooses not to have one.  A big secret is that a lot of the guys who say they are in category one are actually in category 2. I am seeking advice and knowledge from experienced lifestylers. I am looking for women who in the past would have never considered being part of the "lifestyle" and are now very happy that the swiners are here.

Swinging Sex in West Mersea

West Mersea is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in West Mersea looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering No Strings Sex in West Mersea. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in West Mersea. I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry!  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in West Mersea. I find that guys will shy away from this. But my thoughts. How many of you other ladies are turned on by this or am I just a  little wierd. During a mfm threesome the thought of the two men cumming turns me on so much.

We have been on this sight for about a month now and it seems to us its no different than AFF. I mean we are having no luck hooking up! None seems seriuos, do they just come here and look at pic.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. You should really have a heart-to-heart with your wife (if you haven't already) to find out what is truly bothering her.  Perhaps she pushed herself too far past her own comfort zone just for your benefit?  I don't doubt that she enjoyed herself (what healthy woman wouldn't?!), but women tend to dwell on and regret things that men can simply put behind them.  Your wife is probably torn in her own mind about the kind of person she is, and did her actions now define her as a "slut".  The obvious negative connotations can be very disturbing for her. The sex map below shows local women to you in West Mersea that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in West Mersea that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

I'll volunteer for duty. You should just load up your address book here and you are set. Shoot me an email if you'd like to add me. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. How many of you read comments of others on Swingers Forum or Blogs, or do you merely read the topic heading ?Are you more likely to read comments when you make your own?  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. We don't like profiles without pics. If we read your profile and like it, we will still email you, but we will ask for a pic. We have pics, and we update them every few months. We hate pics that are years old. I believe but I think many of other member will agree with me sometimes when we go into different type of sex act, woman think different from man, and I believe that is true about anal sex, for my experience your female partner as to be really involved with you or she really likes it. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. We don't like profiles without pics. If we read your profile and like it, we will still email you, but we will ask for a pic. We have pics, and we update them every few months. We hate pics that are years old.

My has talked a ton about being with another She doesn't have any girlfriends to play with, and is not anxious just to meet a couple for one thing sex. Any thougthts on how to break the ice?

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. Lastly if I do decide I am interested in chatting with a single guy with a view to meeting then it depends on how they "behave" when chatting. If they are the kind that are only intersted in seeing pics or wanting a webcam show etc then they have blown it. If they can't hold a conversation unless they are being sleezy then they have blown it. If you don't mind me asking, what is the biggest penis you ladies feel comfortable taking?  I know anal takes time and prep, but does that mean that you will be able to take up to 12 inches.  Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. Single guys on this site are the same as anything else - some are genuine respectful nice guys and others are a pain in the arse! You can' lump them all together....however, being honest we have come across more that have been a pain in the arse, which is a shame as it often makes it harder for the "nice guys".

How many of you read comments of others on Swingers Forum or Blogs, or do you merely read the topic heading ?Are you more likely to read comments when you make your own?

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We have been on this sight for about a month now and it seems to us its no different than AFF. I mean we are having no luck hooking up! None seems seriuos, do they just come here and look at pic. Looks to me that so many "so-called swingers" are just so desperate to secure whatever they happen to be looking for that, in their narrow mind, swinging is about just that and nothing else, in fact, I am really glad if I do not fit into their picture 🙂 I want to hear from everyone regarding clit and labia size. I'm very often disappointed when I meet a hot woman and start to play with her, only to realize her clit is.

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We are new to the lifestyle and have a problem with hurting peoples feelings, so we'd like to know the best way to excuse ourselves out of partying with a couple we've partied with before.

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My suggestion for any one that like to go that way is just go slow, use a lot of foreplay, lube and TLC and will come easy to do. How come we can't find any hot single girls that actually want to play on here?

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 I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.  

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I truly think that size and technique makes a big difference. Wow!! that a lot of single guys love and hate from this group.  I have been in a couple and now single guy and I guess I never had a problem with single males being in the swing scene.  It was always up to my lady if she wanted more males involved in our activities. It has become a very popular for women I have met to want to see 2 men (usually their husband) have oral sex with another guy.Are there a lot of women that like this?

But for lifestylin, single guys could never make a lifestyle.  But couples could.

So this covers the swingers sex in West Mersea but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

Well it finally happened while I was gone...but it only took a year and a half of her calling him to come over. I just don't get it. Seems like it would be a no brainer for a guy to meet up with a girl who is offering free no strings sex, especially when the male half is away and has personally talked to the guy and given explicit permission to do as he pleases to his wife. What is the world coming to? Now what are the chances of me finding a female who would meet up with me next month while she is out of town? If my wife can't hardly get anyone to, I must be SOL. What are your thoughts...Love 'em, hate 'em...Wanna shoot 'em? Do you feel they bring down the life style or add someting positive to it. If you are looking for single guys, does appearence matter as much as performance, or is it simply a hunt for Moby Dick! Are you offended by single guys at events who get too close uninvited or is this a turn on! What is the proper approach, asuming walking over and pulling out your package is not the way... DP I think a different story, but I think is even more fun.

Couples Sex Parties in Essex

There are so many swingers in Essex as people there love sex so much and just love to swing with other couples so there are lots of swingers parties and couples looking for hot sex.


So above is the latest woman, man or couple that are wanting to do some swinging in Essex and so are looking for Sluts near you. We find these by searching the top swinging and adult dating sites (where the profile matches swinging) so they are excellent matches and they are located in Essex too so you can very easily find Sluts there. Indeed, we do not feel that ppoint as a real question for us. What happens in the swinging world is more or less similar to what happens elsewhere; Indeed, some single males are pushy because they are interested in meeting couples and are not so delicate when appoaching you. .Did you never met pushy people in everyday's life when they nedd to get something from you (especially for business reasons)?

My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in. 

Then below there are also women near you in Essex that are looking for swingers, it’s an adult dating site but most love hooking up with couples so you can easily find lots of swingers and group sex there:

Then there are also men that usually love to hook up with swingers if you need a man for your threesome or group sex:

We don't like profiles without pics. If we read your profile and like it, we will still email you, but we will ask for a pic. We have pics, and we update them every few months. We hate pics that are years old. So it’s easy to find swingers in Essex with so many hot and horny couples and then single women and men that love hooking up with swingers for threesomes or group sex sessions. I don't want to do anything graphic but would really like to have some fun, sexy images that have not been taken by me (using the timer on my camera).  And there are also lots of couples where they love to share their wife or girlfriend and so allowing other men to have sex with them so if you’d like to do some wife swapping or have sex with wives or girlfriends in Essex than you can certainly do that. It's true...the back-door is always the best way in. its true that a lot of guys are homophobic and rules them out of an awesome DP....they dont know what theyre missing. I believe it adds an other demension to love-making. 

I think more guys should try anal sex! you straight guys dont know what you are missing! I have been fucked in the arse by girls with strap-on's and bi guys, it feels great and makes for the most intense orgasms! Guys have their 'G' spot located in their ass so any penetration directly stimulates this, there are lots of web sites giving advice for men and women about giving and taking anal sex, just type 'anal sex advice' into google and see! To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂

Looks to me that so many "so-called swingers" are just so desperate to secure whatever they happen to be looking for that, in their narrow mind, swinging is about just that and nothing else, in fact, I am really glad if I do not fit into their picture 🙂 There are then also swinging clubs and sex parties all over Essex so you can also ask to join these clubs and parties for awesome group sex with lots of like minded and genuine swingers.

My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in. 

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We have experienced that the single males out there are nice to us at the parties, but after a while they (not all) seem to have gone too far by always being around us or start to doing the chicken (puffing out their chest with attitude for some odd reason), even after we say that we are not interested in single males.  Then sometimes they ask if they can just watch.

Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home. But there is the deliberate perpetually single but still wanting pussy guy.  These guys harvest and walk, which does not do a lot to make a supply of secure fun women in the world.

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I'll volunteer for duty. You should just load up your address book here and you are set. Shoot me an email if you'd like to add me. I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry!

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Well, this blog I am writing is to VENT soooooooooo many people write me and I try to respond to every email i get BUT why do some people (you know who you are) not uplaod pictures?

If you don't mind me asking, what is the biggest penis you ladies feel comfortable taking?  I know anal takes time and prep, but does that mean that you will be able to take up to 12 inches.  But the problem with most single guys is that they are too self-absorbed to apply themselves to a relationship for more than a moment, or for more than them getting what they want at a minimum of effort.  Giving them some intimacy can make a woman feel underappreciated. And the women who can take that the best are married, swingers and have a full time devotee to make them happy.

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Here's a bright idea ! If your afraid of being noticed... HIDE YOUR PROFILE FROM TRIAL MEMBERS ! sigh its as simple as that.. that waynon of the  browseres will  see your pictures.AND I highlydoubt that any couple that PAYS for this site is going to rat you outto your family or office. Same thing i tell couples who dont wantsingle men... use the block feature ! the webmaster made these featuresfor these reasons... just use them and stop complaining.

It has become a very popular for women I have met to want to see 2 men (usually their husband) have oral sex with another guy.Are there a lot of women that like this? What are your thoughts...Love 'em, hate 'em...Wanna shoot 'em? Do you feel they bring down the life style or add someting positive to it. If you are looking for single guys, does appearence matter as much as performance, or is it simply a hunt for Moby Dick! Are you offended by single guys at events who get too close uninvited or is this a turn on! What is the proper approach, asuming walking over and pulling out your package is not the way... Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it!

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So, I am curious to how many girlies are really bi, and like three-somes or just say they are because it's vogue. Being a Bi-fem, myself, I am amazed at how many fems say they are but when it comes to it don't do it.

So this is how we find swingers in the UK that want to meet up for hot sex like threesomes or sex parties, there are also lots of swinging clubs in Essex that you can choose from.

Or go back to the home page.

Horny Swingers in Manningtree

Manningtree is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Manningtree looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Kinky Slags in Manningtree. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Manningtree. Why do some couples advertise for SMs in ther profiles, and ask them to send e-mails, but block them from sending e-mails? I have noticed it more than just a hand full of times.   There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Manningtree. Hello all, I love to give Anal, at this point of my life I think is my favorite, and in many of my relationship I got in trouble for it because many woman refuse it no matter what.

A couple between the age 22 and 30 to have a couple swap. we are both  new to the scene and a bit inexperience. we need a couple to share in our adventure. 

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. I (Jezabel) do both,,, it all depends how kinky the moment is... it taste good for me... and hell!!! what man does not get turned over his eyeballs with a good, deep, FINISHED in our mouth blow job?... The sex map below shows local women to you in Manningtree that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Manningtree that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

The line that people use that they worry because of discretion is bull. We have children, both small and grown, but we still have pics. The answer to that is easy. LEAVE THE FACE OFF! Someone you know may think it looks like you, but they can't prove it without your face unless you have an identifying body mark, or something. My husband is shy about pics, but we still included one of him dressed. Plus we have others of him in our private pics if someone requests to see more of him. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home. It would seeem to us that there would not be a problem calling up a late night booty call, but there is and belive it or not. It is even difficult to get a single male on short notice these days. Does any one els have this problem? And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. In my experience, roughly 70% have swallowed and 30% spit.The most interesting are the women who swallow and then her husband tells me that she never swallows...one even told me that she never gives head...

We have been in the lifestyle a little under 2 years. We always make sure our profile is accurate . By this I mean that our weights , ages, and pictures are truthful and  current.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. I am a single female looking for a 3some with a man and a women or 2 women.I am very clean and disease free and looking for the same.I live in the broward area and will travel for the right people Anal used to be just an occassional thing for us.  Although I enjoy it immensely, it takes patience and the right mood.  I can say, anal gives me incredible, over the top orgasms!  Recently (about two months ago) I finally got to enjoy my first DP and I was completely hooked!  Now I'm looking for a third cock to fill my mouth and then you boys can rotate! LOL. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. I am curious how many men are like me and like their wives to have sex with other men?I love for my wife to be a slut. I like to watch her with other guys but also have no problem with her doing this.

Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it!

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I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent. We have been on this sight for about a month now and it seems to us its no different than AFF. I mean we are having no luck hooking up! None seems seriuos, do they just come here and look at pic. We are a couple with no experince in this lifestyle but with a lot of Fantasies. We need some advises to realize our fantasies. Should we hire a call girl to have our first threesome??

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I wish to find some time a lady that really likes it, will be fun for all.

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DP I think a different story, but I think is even more fun. There is the nice single guy lookin for Ms. Right, but fuckin multiples in the meantime guy.  These guys are more inclined to find a relationship than to make one if they have been at it very long.  Some of these guys are also in category 2. Most of married folks are of the opinion that you make what you want in a realtionship.

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Also it is important for them to show Mr Horny some respect as if he is not happy then I'm not happy and vice versa.

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I tooo like anal sex. I especially love multiple guys (especially the big ones) doing DP on me. I even want to do some video work doing a small group of hung (9+') guys doing DP on me. I was hoping to do something this weekend as a matter of fact in the Atlanta area but so far no groups of guys have approached me How many of you read comments of others on Swingers Forum or Blogs, or do you merely read the topic heading ?Are you more likely to read comments when you make your own? We're looking for women or couple to play dirty with us.

Just curious about peoples takes on this subject. There is nothing like meeting a couple that is not what they advertise. People need to update their photos - don't you think?

So this covers the swingers sex in Manningtree but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

To the statistics; well let's face some facts here; the majority of swingers are in no way related to anything organised, being websites, clubs etc. and this is especially true for the ones searching for single guys, so real life is somewhat different from the stats (and the demand for single guys much higher).  Hey, that was just my .02 - glad I got that off my chest, now go ahead, start yelling and screaming, what do I care; I am doing so much better outside sdc anyway ... How about long and thick?  I am about 10 and quite thick would you like that?  I personally like all types of ladies but ladies that enjoy anal and especially dp are the best and my favorite.

Swinger Fun in Clacton on Sea

Clacton on Sea is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Clacton on Sea looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering British Swingers in Clacton on Sea. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Clacton on Sea.  I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.    There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Clacton on Sea. I am looking for a strap that is comfortable to wear and use. I have wasted money on a couple so far and am looking for suggestions. 

If you don't mind me asking, what is the biggest penis you ladies feel comfortable taking?  I know anal takes time and prep, but does that mean that you will be able to take up to 12 inches. 

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. You should really have a heart-to-heart with your wife (if you haven't already) to find out what is truly bothering her.  Perhaps she pushed herself too far past her own comfort zone just for your benefit?  I don't doubt that she enjoyed herself (what healthy woman wouldn't?!), but women tend to dwell on and regret things that men can simply put behind them.  Your wife is probably torn in her own mind about the kind of person she is, and did her actions now define her as a "slut".  The obvious negative connotations can be very disturbing for her. The sex map below shows local women to you in Clacton on Sea that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Clacton on Sea that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

OK, I know you all are great at giving advice, so I could really use your help.  My wife and I have been really busy with a new business we started, and I want to take her away from it all. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. There is single and can't keep one guy.  These guys can be okay, but they don't have the skills to keep one, where the above category chooses not to have one.  A big secret is that a lot of the guys who say they are in category one are actually in category 2.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. I (Jezabel) do both,,, it all depends how kinky the moment is... it taste good for me... and hell!!! what man does not get turned over his eyeballs with a good, deep, FINISHED in our mouth blow job?... I don't want to do anything graphic but would really like to have some fun, sexy images that have not been taken by me (using the timer on my camera).  And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. Well it finally happened while I was gone...but it only took a year and a half of her calling him to come over. I just don't get it. Seems like it would be a no brainer for a guy to meet up with a girl who is offering free no strings sex, especially when the male half is away and has personally talked to the guy and given explicit permission to do as he pleases to his wife. What is the world coming to? Now what are the chances of me finding a female who would meet up with me next month while she is out of town? If my wife can't hardly get anyone to, I must be SOL.

Perhaps I am too picky, I don't know but I like to feel as if I am being treated with a bit of respect!

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. How many of you read comments of others on Swingers Forum or Blogs, or do you merely read the topic heading ?Are you more likely to read comments when you make your own? Perhaps I am too picky, I don't know but I like to feel as if I am being treated with a bit of respect! Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. For us to even consider a single guy it firstly depends on the email they have sent, the one liner kind with only cock shots attached get deleted straight away. Then I will look at their profile and if it is one of these profiles where no effort has been made with it and contains a few words and the pics are of his cock from different angles then again it puts me right off. Also we look at the validations these will often tell you alot!

And this just doesn't go for single males also, we have been with couples where the other male starts to do the same.  I/we personally don't want a single male in our sex life, but understand many do.  So, we really aren't bothered by them too much as long as understand they don't have a chance with us/me.   

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Looks to me that so many "so-called swingers" are just so desperate to secure whatever they happen to be looking for that, in their narrow mind, swinging is about just that and nothing else, in fact, I am really glad if I do not fit into their picture 🙂 Why would someone be intrested in someone esle that they have no idea what they look like? I mean as superficial as that might sound... We are all here for the same reason and well pictures really help in responses to your emails! I will be honest I do not even open emails with no pictures soooooooooooooo how about uplaoding pictures!!!  And this just doesn't go for single males also, we have been with couples where the other male starts to do the same.  I/we personally don't want a single male in our sex life, but understand many do.  So, we really aren't bothered by them too much as long as understand they don't have a chance with us/me.   

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We have a terrible time with last minute, late night booty calls.  We are looking for the perfect, nearby single male to help us out with that! We have slightly better luck with single females and find that couples normally have conflicting schedules or family commitments and require more planning.  That said, we totally understand family must come first.  We are very busy professionals and parents with extremely hectic schedules and so we cannot criticize others, we understand you're busy too!

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Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home. For us to even consider a single guy it firstly depends on the email they have sent, the one liner kind with only cock shots attached get deleted straight away. Then I will look at their profile and if it is one of these profiles where no effort has been made with it and contains a few words and the pics are of his cock from different angles then again it puts me right off. Also we look at the validations these will often tell you alot!

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So, I am curious to how many girlies are really bi, and like three-somes or just say they are because it's vogue. Being a Bi-fem, myself, I am amazed at how many fems say they are but when it comes to it don't do it.

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There is single and can't keep one guy.  These guys can be okay, but they don't have the skills to keep one, where the above category chooses not to have one.  A big secret is that a lot of the guys who say they are in category one are actually in category 2. To the statistics; well let's face some facts here; the majority of swingers are in no way related to anything organised, being websites, clubs etc. and this is especially true for the ones searching for single guys, so real life is somewhat different from the stats (and the demand for single guys much higher).  I truly think that size and technique makes a big difference.

How about long and thick?  I am about 10 and quite thick would you like that?  I personally like all types of ladies but ladies that enjoy anal and especially dp are the best and my favorite.

So this covers the swingers sex in Clacton on Sea but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it! Here's a bright idea ! If your afraid of being noticed... HIDE YOUR PROFILE FROM TRIAL MEMBERS ! sigh its as simple as that.. that waynon of the  browseres will  see your pictures.AND I highlydoubt that any couple that PAYS for this site is going to rat you outto your family or office. Same thing i tell couples who dont wantsingle men... use the block feature ! the webmaster made these featuresfor these reasons... just use them and stop complaining. Indeed, we do not feel that ppoint as a real question for us. What happens in the swinging world is more or less similar to what happens elsewhere; Indeed, some single males are pushy because they are interested in meeting couples and are not so delicate when appoaching you. .Did you never met pushy people in everyday's life when they nedd to get something from you (especially for business reasons)?

Swinger Group Sex in South Woodham Ferrers

South Woodham Ferrers is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in South Woodham Ferrers looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Swingers in South Woodham Ferrers. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in South Woodham Ferrers. Mmmmm Mmmmm Mmmmmm Well another woman who has found intense pleasure from anal sex.Most of the woman I have had the pleasure of intoducing this to have just like you become quite infatuated with orgasming in this manner.It tends to be whole body orgasms that can and do repeat themselves.Yes and from a mans prospective it is quite erotic...  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in South Woodham Ferrers. My husband and I have validated couples who have accepted our validations but have not validated us in both find this to be discourteous, being that a validation proves that we are a real couple.

I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. All of us married guys are just a pissed off woman away from being single.  So just being single for a while can only be so bad as a character reference. The sex map below shows local women to you in South Woodham Ferrers that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in South Woodham Ferrers that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

I (Jezabel) do both,,, it all depends how kinky the moment is... it taste good for me... and hell!!! what man does not get turned over his eyeballs with a good, deep, FINISHED in our mouth blow job?... Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Hello all, I love to give Anal, at this point of my life I think is my favorite, and in many of my relationship I got in trouble for it because many woman refuse it no matter what.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. Single guys on this site are the same as anything else - some are genuine respectful nice guys and others are a pain in the arse! You can' lump them all together....however, being honest we have come across more that have been a pain in the arse, which is a shame as it often makes it harder for the "nice guys". All of us married guys are just a pissed off woman away from being single.  So just being single for a while can only be so bad as a character reference. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. Perhaps I am too picky, I don't know but I like to feel as if I am being treated with a bit of respect!

For us to even consider a single guy it firstly depends on the email they have sent, the one liner kind with only cock shots attached get deleted straight away. Then I will look at their profile and if it is one of these profiles where no effort has been made with it and contains a few words and the pics are of his cock from different angles then again it puts me right off. Also we look at the validations these will often tell you alot!

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in.  I am an inexperienced female who is interested , but how do I ease into this? Are beginners welcome?  I would hate to offend anyone who may be interested if I find that I'm not completely happy. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. We have been on this sight for about a month now and it seems to us its no different than AFF. I mean we are having no luck hooking up! None seems seriuos, do they just come here and look at pic.

We don't like profiles without pics. If we read your profile and like it, we will still email you, but we will ask for a pic. We have pics, and we update them every few months. We hate pics that are years old.

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My husband is an expert with anal sex. I didn't like it either because it hurt at first. Then he taught me how to relax my sphincter and now I can take just about anything in there. I love dp but can't always find the right guys to do it with. Some guys are just so homophobic they can't stand the idea of their cocks being even near other cocks, or brushing up against another one (which sometimes happens with dp). Come on guys - relax ! There is single and can't keep one guy.  These guys can be okay, but they don't have the skills to keep one, where the above category chooses not to have one.  A big secret is that a lot of the guys who say they are in category one are actually in category 2. Well!  That was a nice comment from a single guy.  I'll be sure to put him on the B list.

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My wife and I just got our first invitation to a Voyeur Events party and we are unsure of whether or not we will go.  I have no problem with the idea of her finding pleasure the way your wife did.

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I think that arguing or trying to make a point over the internet or through a blog or a thread is like Running in the Special Olympics.....Even if you make your point, and your right and you win, You are still retarded!!!!. Booty Calls are on a First Come First Serve basis. If you want some action and you are not local, then you should try better early planning. I don't know about the rest of you, but if I am tired and it is 3am, then the only thing getting me out of my bed is if my house is on fire!!!! I am just being honest. If you are horny and it is local, then that is a whole different type of alarm that can certainly be addressed, and promptly. Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it!

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Single guys on this site are the same as anything else - some are genuine respectful nice guys and others are a pain in the arse! You can' lump them all together....however, being honest we have come across more that have been a pain in the arse, which is a shame as it often makes it harder for the "nice guys".

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I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent. I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search. I am curious how many men are like me and like their wives to have sex with other men?I love for my wife to be a slut. I like to watch her with other guys but also have no problem with her doing this.

And to attitude in general; the established scene, clubs, bars, house parties etc. seems to have a strange attitude; single guys are only just tolerated, if ever, they are told how to behave, what to do and when to perform and are often treated worse than a street hooker, and everything is in the hands of the couples who are allowed anything and everything, just because they are a couple, yet the single guys are often the ones actually paying for the party. Strange attitude; what kind of single guys do you expect to meet at a venue like that? 😉

So this covers the swingers sex in South Woodham Ferrers but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

I believe but I think many of other member will agree with me sometimes when we go into different type of sex act, woman think different from man, and I believe that is true about anal sex, for my experience your female partner as to be really involved with you or she really likes it. Hey, that was just my .02 - glad I got that off my chest, now go ahead, start yelling and screaming, what do I care; I am doing so much better outside sdc anyway ... We have a terrible time with last minute, late night booty calls.  We are looking for the perfect, nearby single male to help us out with that! We have slightly better luck with single females and find that couples normally have conflicting schedules or family commitments and require more planning.  That said, we totally understand family must come first.  We are very busy professionals and parents with extremely hectic schedules and so we cannot criticize others, we understand you're busy too!

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Harwich is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in Harwich looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Swingers in Harwich. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Harwich. I want to swing but just dont know to get hubby to do it. I need some advice on how to go about asking him with sounding like I am not interested in him anymore lol.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Harwich. All of us married guys are just a pissed off woman away from being single.  So just being single for a while can only be so bad as a character reference.

A lot of women do not consider it a pleasurable form of sex, because either, their first experinece was not a pleasurable one or because their partners were into pleasing themselves and not taking care for giving her pleasure.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. Are there ever any swinging clubs or events for those of us who are over 18 but still under 21 to play at other than private parties? I have been dying to bring my man to a club environment to play with swingers. The sex map below shows local women to you in Harwich that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Harwich that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

What is the actual turn on for the Husband /B.F during the swinging proccess ?What do they really like to see /? Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Well it finally happened while I was gone...but it only took a year and a half of her calling him to come over. I just don't get it. Seems like it would be a no brainer for a guy to meet up with a girl who is offering free no strings sex, especially when the male half is away and has personally talked to the guy and given explicit permission to do as he pleases to his wife. What is the world coming to? Now what are the chances of me finding a female who would meet up with me next month while she is out of town? If my wife can't hardly get anyone to, I must be SOL.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. I wish to find some time a lady that really likes it, will be fun for all. I am an inexperienced female who is interested , but how do I ease into this? Are beginners welcome?  I would hate to offend anyone who may be interested if I find that I'm not completely happy. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. I believe but I think many of other member will agree with me sometimes when we go into different type of sex act, woman think different from man, and I believe that is true about anal sex, for my experience your female partner as to be really involved with you or she really likes it.

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Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. Hello all, I love to give Anal, at this point of my life I think is my favorite, and in many of my relationship I got in trouble for it because many woman refuse it no matter what. Personally I also think people should not take the piss on people who choose not to post pics as long as they behave correctly.It's their good and hones right not to, for whatever  reason they might have.They pay so they can present their profile the way they please. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. I am a single female looking for a 3some with a man and a women or 2 women.I am very clean and disease free and looking for the same.I live in the broward area and will travel for the right people

As we go through this sexual adventure, I was wondering (maybe to much time on my hands). What was the most amazing swing experience you have had? 

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God did not put those two holes together just so you can pick a women up like a six pack when shes drunk its for fun sue loves it. First of all to the (few?) ignorant people (sorry, I do not see any reason to be polite there 🙂 who believe that swinging is a couples lifestyle; it is all about a state of mind, being single M or F, couple or whatever has absolutely nothing to do with it! Believeing that people change their mindset every time they marry/divorce or otherwise drift in and out of relationships is not really realistic is it? Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it!

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The line that people use that they worry because of discretion is bull. We have children, both small and grown, but we still have pics. The answer to that is easy. LEAVE THE FACE OFF! Someone you know may think it looks like you, but they can't prove it without your face unless you have an identifying body mark, or something. My husband is shy about pics, but we still included one of him dressed. Plus we have others of him in our private pics if someone requests to see more of him.

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Are there ever any swinging clubs or events for those of us who are over 18 but still under 21 to play at other than private parties? I have been dying to bring my man to a club environment to play with swingers. Hey, that was just my .02 - glad I got that off my chest, now go ahead, start yelling and screaming, what do I care; I am doing so much better outside sdc anyway ...

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To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂

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I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry! We still wonder why profiles, without pictures, are allowed? That will be a good selection to prevent fakers and people who are just curious. We must admit that we don't have recognizable pictures because of that. Just curious about peoples takes on this subject. There is nothing like meeting a couple that is not what they advertise. People need to update their photos - don't you think?

OK, I know you all are great at giving advice, so I could really use your help.  My wife and I have been really busy with a new business we started, and I want to take her away from it all.

So this covers the swingers sex in Harwich but if you want other locations in Essex then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

My wife and I have always had a very active sex life and love to get caught up in fantasies when we make love I am curious how many men are like me and like their wives to have sex with other men?I love for my wife to be a slut. I like to watch her with other guys but also have no problem with her doing this. All of us married guys are just a pissed off woman away from being single.  So just being single for a while can only be so bad as a character reference.

Threesome Sex in West Thurrock

West Thurrock is an amazing place in Essex where there is a huge amount of swinging happening as there are so many horny couples that love hooking up for hot sex.


So they are the latest in West Thurrock looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Threesome Sex in West Thurrock. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in West Thurrock. Hello all, I love to give Anal, at this point of my life I think is my favorite, and in many of my relationship I got in trouble for it because many woman refuse it no matter what.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in West Thurrock. Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x

But the problem with most single guys is that they are too self-absorbed to apply themselves to a relationship for more than a moment, or for more than them getting what they want at a minimum of effort.  Giving them some intimacy can make a woman feel underappreciated. And the women who can take that the best are married, swingers and have a full time devotee to make them happy.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. We are new to the lifestyle and have a problem with hurting peoples feelings, so we'd like to know the best way to excuse ourselves out of partying with a couple we've partied with before. The sex map below shows local women to you in West Thurrock that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in West Thurrock that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

Are there ever any swinging clubs or events for those of us who are over 18 but still under 21 to play at other than private parties? I have been dying to bring my man to a club environment to play with swingers. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. I hope that what i wrote made sense, and I will just say, try it is so much fun, just be very patient and slow, you will enjoy it, as usual have fun be safe.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. I guess that  we live in a time now where you can't trust too many people to do what is right or expect that  anymore.  To close I have been a swinger for 20 years and single males were always apart of the lifestyle, and always will be.  I even think that they were the ones that started it as a way to have sex with couples starting back in the time of Rome.    To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂 And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. It would seeem to us that there would not be a problem calling up a late night booty call, but there is and belive it or not. It is even difficult to get a single male on short notice these days. Does any one els have this problem?

My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in. 

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. A couple between the age 22 and 30 to have a couple swap. we are both  new to the scene and a bit inexperience. we need a couple to share in our adventure.  Yes we have had this same problem, we have always thought is was distance, but when we have lived in bigger towns we have had the same problems.  My wife has had the same problem for the last year she has been getting to play while I am gone (no reason both of us should go with sex for a year). Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent.

Indeed, we do not feel that ppoint as a real question for us. What happens in the swinging world is more or less similar to what happens elsewhere; Indeed, some single males are pushy because they are interested in meeting couples and are not so delicate when appoaching you. .Did you never met pushy people in everyday's life when they nedd to get something from you (especially for business reasons)?

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I want to hear from everyone regarding clit and labia size. I'm very often disappointed when I meet a hot woman and start to play with her, only to realize her clit is. I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent. Hello all, I love to give Anal, at this point of my life I think is my favorite, and in many of my relationship I got in trouble for it because many woman refuse it no matter what.

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Ok we are working on setting up our profile andwere wondering what is ment by completely open. We are brand new and looking for our first experience in thelifestyle and would not be opposed to the idea.

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But there is the deliberate perpetually single but still wanting pussy guy.  These guys harvest and walk, which does not do a lot to make a supply of secure fun women in the world. We don't like profiles without pics. If we read your profile and like it, we will still email you, but we will ask for a pic. We have pics, and we update them every few months. We hate pics that are years old.

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Here's a bright idea ! If your afraid of being noticed... HIDE YOUR PROFILE FROM TRIAL MEMBERS ! sigh its as simple as that.. that waynon of the  browseres will  see your pictures.AND I highlydoubt that any couple that PAYS for this site is going to rat you outto your family or office. Same thing i tell couples who dont wantsingle men... use the block feature ! the webmaster made these featuresfor these reasons... just use them and stop complaining.

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Here's a bright idea ! If your afraid of being noticed... HIDE YOUR PROFILE FROM TRIAL MEMBERS ! sigh its as simple as that.. that waynon of the  browseres will  see your pictures.AND I highlydoubt that any couple that PAYS for this site is going to rat you outto your family or office. Same thing i tell couples who dont wantsingle men... use the block feature ! the webmaster made these featuresfor these reasons... just use them and stop complaining. I am a single female looking for a 3some with a man and a women or 2 women.I am very clean and disease free and looking for the same.I live in the broward area and will travel for the right people Personally I also think people should not take the piss on people who choose not to post pics as long as they behave correctly.It's their good and hones right not to, for whatever  reason they might have.They pay so they can present their profile the way they please.

In my experience, roughly 70% have swallowed and 30% spit.The most interesting are the women who swallow and then her husband tells me that she never swallows...one even told me that she never gives head...

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Let you wife know how much you love her, how much you enjoyed participating in her pleasure, and that her actions do not at all change who she is.  She is simply a healthy, beautiful, adult woman who lived out her wildest fantasies one evening.  Encourage her to come clean about any part of the evening that she either regrets or didn't truly enjoy.  Perhaps the man with the three fingers inside her was a bit creepy, but she was uncomfortable stopping him under the circumstances.  If she knows she is in control, and can engage in only whatever she wants she may be more likely to try one more time.  The key is to not pressure her for a repeat performance.  Maybe next time she'll just want to have sex with you and enjoy the atmosphere?  Maybe she'll want to watch you with another woman?  Either way, let her know that there isn't any pressure for her to outdo herself. To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂 Well, this blog I am writing is to VENT soooooooooo many people write me and I try to respond to every email i get BUT why do some people (you know who you are) not uplaod pictures?