Swinger Sex in Broadstairs

Broadstairs in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.


So they are the latest in Broadstairs looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Slutty Sex in Broadstairs. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Broadstairs. We are new to the lifestyle and have a problem with hurting peoples feelings, so we'd like to know the best way to excuse ourselves out of partying with a couple we've partied with before.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Broadstairs. A lot of women do not consider it a pleasurable form of sex, because either, their first experinece was not a pleasurable one or because their partners were into pleasing themselves and not taking care for giving her pleasure.

I find that guys will shy away from this. But my thoughts. How many of you other ladies are turned on by this or am I just a  little wierd. During a mfm threesome the thought of the two men cumming turns me on so much. Lastly if I do decide I am interested in chatting with a single guy with a view to meeting then it depends on how they "behave" when chatting. If they are the kind that are only intersted in seeing pics or wanting a webcam show etc then they have blown it. If they can't hold a conversation unless they are being sleezy then they have blown it.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. It would seeem to us that there would not be a problem calling up a late night booty call, but there is and belive it or not. It is even difficult to get a single male on short notice these days. Does any one els have this problem? We have been on this sight for about a month now and it seems to us its no different than AFF. I mean we are having no luck hooking up! None seems seriuos, do they just come here and look at pic. The sex map below shows local women to you in Broadstairs that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Broadstairs that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

Well!  That was a nice comment from a single guy.  I'll be sure to put him on the B list. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. My has talked a ton about being with another She doesn't have any girlfriends to play with, and is not anxious just to meet a couple for one thing sex. Any thougthts on how to break the ice? It's true...the back-door is always the best way in. its true that a lot of guys are homophobic and rules them out of an awesome DP....they dont know what theyre missing. I believe it adds an other demension to love-making.   Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. You should really have a heart-to-heart with your wife (if you haven't already) to find out what is truly bothering her.  Perhaps she pushed herself too far past her own comfort zone just for your benefit?  I don't doubt that she enjoyed herself (what healthy woman wouldn't?!), but women tend to dwell on and regret things that men can simply put behind them.  Your wife is probably torn in her own mind about the kind of person she is, and did her actions now define her as a "slut".  The obvious negative connotations can be very disturbing for her.  And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. How many of you read comments of others on Swingers Forum or Blogs, or do you merely read the topic heading ?Are you more likely to read comments when you make your own?

I can have all the fun I want with people I meet in "the real world", outside the organised scene, and the scene hardly accounts for any fun in my life, apart from meeting a few great friends there, in fact, I never knew I was a "problem" as a single guy until I got involved with the scene; rreally says it all, doesn't it? Ok we are working on setting up our profile andwere wondering what is ment by completely open. We are brand new and looking for our first experience in thelifestyle and would not be opposed to the idea.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. We still wonder why profiles, without pictures, are allowed? That will be a good selection to prevent fakers and people who are just curious. We must admit that we don't have recognizable pictures because of that. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. My suggestion for any one that like to go that way is just go slow, use a lot of foreplay, lube and TLC and will come easy to do.

Indeed, we do not feel that ppoint as a real question for us. What happens in the swinging world is more or less similar to what happens elsewhere; Indeed, some single males are pushy because they are interested in meeting couples and are not so delicate when appoaching you. .Did you never met pushy people in everyday's life when they nedd to get something from you (especially for business reasons)? We don't like profiles without pics. If we read your profile and like it, we will still email you, but we will ask for a pic. We have pics, and we update them every few months. We hate pics that are years old.

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We have experienced that the single males out there are nice to us at the parties, but after a while they (not all) seem to have gone too far by always being around us or start to doing the chicken (puffing out their chest with attitude for some odd reason), even after we say that we are not interested in single males.  Then sometimes they ask if they can just watch.

Looks to me that so many "so-called swingers" are just so desperate to secure whatever they happen to be looking for that, in their narrow mind, swinging is about just that and nothing else, in fact, I am really glad if I do not fit into their picture 🙂 DP I think a different story, but I think is even more fun.

We don't like profiles without pics. If we read your profile and like it, we will still email you, but we will ask for a pic. We have pics, and we update them every few months. We hate pics that are years old.

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Thats one thing we always try to do... Show ourself's as we are... we are here because we don't hide what we are and who we are... we try to up-load new, fun, sexy pics as often  as we can... all for your and our plesure... We feel that if no pic's (real ones) no party... that simple.

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The line that people use that they worry because of discretion is bull. We have children, both small and grown, but we still have pics. The answer to that is easy. LEAVE THE FACE OFF! Someone you know may think it looks like you, but they can't prove it without your face unless you have an identifying body mark, or something. My husband is shy about pics, but we still included one of him dressed. Plus we have others of him in our private pics if someone requests to see more of him. Now, in contrast, when done with a lot of foreplay, is one of the best orgams women can have. Also DP is a fantasy many women have and not being able to fulfill.

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 I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.   Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home.

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God did not put those two holes together just so you can pick a women up like a six pack when shes drunk its for fun sue loves it. As a man that enjoys giving pleasure, my experience is that after a woman trys it and she enjoys it, she will become "a backdoor addict"........so no, you are not the only one! Those women that haven't try it they do not know what they are missing; the only thing the need is a man that is willing to give them the pleasure they deserve. What is the actual turn on for the Husband /B.F during the swinging proccess ?What do they really like to see /?

I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search.

So this covers the swingers sex in Broadstairs but if you want other locations in Kent then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

Well, that's my two cents!  If you want to open a dialogue, my wife and I are mid-thirties, attractive, healthy, athletic adults who are a step or two behind you.  Perhaps we could compare notes and help each other along?  But the problem with most single guys is that they are too self-absorbed to apply themselves to a relationship for more than a moment, or for more than them getting what they want at a minimum of effort.  Giving them some intimacy can make a woman feel underappreciated. And the women who can take that the best are married, swingers and have a full time devotee to make them happy. I tooo like anal sex. I especially love multiple guys (especially the big ones) doing DP on me. I even want to do some video work doing a small group of hung (9+') guys doing DP on me. I was hoping to do something this weekend as a matter of fact in the Atlanta area but so far no groups of guys have approached me

Sex Parties in Sheerness

Sheerness in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.


So they are the latest in Sheerness looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Swingers in Sheerness. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Sheerness. Indeed, we do not feel that ppoint as a real question for us. What happens in the swinging world is more or less similar to what happens elsewhere; Indeed, some single males are pushy because they are interested in meeting couples and are not so delicate when appoaching you. .Did you never met pushy people in everyday's life when they nedd to get something from you (especially for business reasons)?  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Sheerness. Indeed, we do not feel that ppoint as a real question for us. What happens in the swinging world is more or less similar to what happens elsewhere; Indeed, some single males are pushy because they are interested in meeting couples and are not so delicate when appoaching you. .Did you never met pushy people in everyday's life when they nedd to get something from you (especially for business reasons)?

It's true...the back-door is always the best way in. its true that a lot of guys are homophobic and rules them out of an awesome DP....they dont know what theyre missing. I believe it adds an other demension to love-making.  I find that guys will shy away from this. But my thoughts. How many of you other ladies are turned on by this or am I just a  little wierd. During a mfm threesome the thought of the two men cumming turns me on so much.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. How come we can't find any hot single girls that actually want to play on here? Well it finally happened while I was gone...but it only took a year and a half of her calling him to come over. I just don't get it. Seems like it would be a no brainer for a guy to meet up with a girl who is offering free no strings sex, especially when the male half is away and has personally talked to the guy and given explicit permission to do as he pleases to his wife. What is the world coming to? Now what are the chances of me finding a female who would meet up with me next month while she is out of town? If my wife can't hardly get anyone to, I must be SOL. The sex map below shows local women to you in Sheerness that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Sheerness that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

But there is the deliberate perpetually single but still wanting pussy guy.  These guys harvest and walk, which does not do a lot to make a supply of secure fun women in the world. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. It's true...the back-door is always the best way in. its true that a lot of guys are homophobic and rules them out of an awesome DP....they dont know what theyre missing. I believe it adds an other demension to love-making.  Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. I can have all the fun I want with people I meet in "the real world", outside the organised scene, and the scene hardly accounts for any fun in my life, apart from meeting a few great friends there, in fact, I never knew I was a "problem" as a single guy until I got involved with the scene; rreally says it all, doesn't it?  And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. I am an inexperienced female who is interested , but how do I ease into this? Are beginners welcome?  I would hate to offend anyone who may be interested if I find that I'm not completely happy.

Personally I also think people should not take the piss on people who choose not to post pics as long as they behave correctly.It's their good and hones right not to, for whatever  reason they might have.They pay so they can present their profile the way they please. Personally I also think people should not take the piss on people who choose not to post pics as long as they behave correctly.It's their good and hones right not to, for whatever  reason they might have.They pay so they can present their profile the way they please.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. But for lifestylin, single guys could never make a lifestyle.  But couples could. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. Why would someone be intrested in someone esle that they have no idea what they look like? I mean as superficial as that might sound... We are all here for the same reason and well pictures really help in responses to your emails! I will be honest I do not even open emails with no pictures soooooooooooooo how about uplaoding pictures!!! 

I am seeking advice and knowledge from experienced lifestylers. I am looking for women who in the past would have never considered being part of the "lifestyle" and are now very happy that the swiners are here. So, I am curious to how many girlies are really bi, and like three-somes or just say they are because it's vogue. Being a Bi-fem, myself, I am amazed at how many fems say they are but when it comes to it don't do it.

Swingers in Sheerness

We still wonder why profiles, without pictures, are allowed? That will be a good selection to prevent fakers and people who are just curious. We must admit that we don't have recognizable pictures because of that.

I can have all the fun I want with people I meet in "the real world", outside the organised scene, and the scene hardly accounts for any fun in my life, apart from meeting a few great friends there, in fact, I never knew I was a "problem" as a single guy until I got involved with the scene; rreally says it all, doesn't it? Swallowing is great! But sharing is even better either through french kissing or after sex. One favorite is licking a pussy while it is being fucked. Then when both cum the person licking gets a double treat.  🙂

My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in. 

Throat Penetration

I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry!

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I like it in principle, but no matter what we do, it is just way too PAINFUL! Is a shame as I like vaginal DP, so am sure that the kinkyness of proper DP is mindblowing physically, and deliciously slutty mentally, but alas, not for me. x Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home.

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 I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.   Mmmmm Mmmmm Mmmmmm Well another woman who has found intense pleasure from anal sex.Most of the woman I have had the pleasure of intoducing this to have just like you become quite infatuated with orgasming in this manner.It tends to be whole body orgasms that can and do repeat themselves.Yes and from a mans prospective it is quite erotic...

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I guess that  we live in a time now where you can't trust too many people to do what is right or expect that  anymore.  To close I have been a swinger for 20 years and single males were always apart of the lifestyle, and always will be.  I even think that they were the ones that started it as a way to have sex with couples starting back in the time of Rome.    Hey, that was just my .02 - glad I got that off my chest, now go ahead, start yelling and screaming, what do I care; I am doing so much better outside sdc anyway ... I truly think that size and technique makes a big difference.

I can have all the fun I want with people I meet in "the real world", outside the organised scene, and the scene hardly accounts for any fun in my life, apart from meeting a few great friends there, in fact, I never knew I was a "problem" as a single guy until I got involved with the scene; rreally says it all, doesn't it?

So this covers the swingers sex in Sheerness but if you want other locations in Kent then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

As we go through this sexual adventure, I was wondering (maybe to much time on my hands). What was the most amazing swing experience you have had?  I think more guys should try anal sex! you straight guys dont know what you are missing! I have been fucked in the arse by girls with strap-on's and bi guys, it feels great and makes for the most intense orgasms! Guys have their 'G' spot located in their ass so any penetration directly stimulates this, there are lots of web sites giving advice for men and women about giving and taking anal sex, just type 'anal sex advice' into google and see! Let you wife know how much you love her, how much you enjoyed participating in her pleasure, and that her actions do not at all change who she is.  She is simply a healthy, beautiful, adult woman who lived out her wildest fantasies one evening.  Encourage her to come clean about any part of the evening that she either regrets or didn't truly enjoy.  Perhaps the man with the three fingers inside her was a bit creepy, but she was uncomfortable stopping him under the circumstances.  If she knows she is in control, and can engage in only whatever she wants she may be more likely to try one more time.  The key is to not pressure her for a repeat performance.  Maybe next time she'll just want to have sex with you and enjoy the atmosphere?  Maybe she'll want to watch you with another woman?  Either way, let her know that there isn't any pressure for her to outdo herself.

UK Swingers in Fordwich

Fordwich in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.


So they are the latest in Fordwich looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering UK Swingers in Fordwich. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Fordwich. A quiet rural location, impressive newly built red brick cottage, ample parking, outdoor grounds, playrooms, chillout room, extensive social lounge, Dungeon playroom. photo in our profile pics. Funky house tunes, chilllout, dance, and trance.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Fordwich. Perhaps I am too picky, I don't know but I like to feel as if I am being treated with a bit of respect!

We are a couple with no experince in this lifestyle but with a lot of Fantasies. We need some advises to realize our fantasies. Should we hire a call girl to have our first threesome?? Yes we have had this same problem, we have always thought is was distance, but when we have lived in bigger towns we have had the same problems.  My wife has had the same problem for the last year she has been getting to play while I am gone (no reason both of us should go with sex for a year).

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. As a man that enjoys giving pleasure, my experience is that after a woman trys it and she enjoys it, she will become "a backdoor addict"........so no, you are not the only one! Those women that haven't try it they do not know what they are missing; the only thing the need is a man that is willing to give them the pleasure they deserve. I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search. The sex map below shows local women to you in Fordwich that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Fordwich that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

How many of you read comments of others on Swingers Forum or Blogs, or do you merely read the topic heading ?Are you more likely to read comments when you make your own? Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time.  I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.    And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. Ok we are working on setting up our profile andwere wondering what is ment by completely open. We are brand new and looking for our first experience in thelifestyle and would not be opposed to the idea.

This is my first time ever on one of these sites.  I took my wife to a Voyeur Events party.  We never did anything like that before.  Aside from some fantasizing, we never did anything out of the ordinary.   After a half hour, she participated in the bondage show, went in the back room and was making out in the nude with another woman while a man sucked her breasts and another man had three fingers inside her.   Mmmmm Mmmmm Mmmmmm Well another woman who has found intense pleasure from anal sex.Most of the woman I have had the pleasure of intoducing this to have just like you become quite infatuated with orgasming in this manner.It tends to be whole body orgasms that can and do repeat themselves.Yes and from a mans prospective it is quite erotic...

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. I am seeking advice and knowledge from experienced lifestylers. I am looking for women who in the past would have never considered being part of the "lifestyle" and are now very happy that the swiners are here.

To the statistics; well let's face some facts here; the majority of swingers are in no way related to anything organised, being websites, clubs etc. and this is especially true for the ones searching for single guys, so real life is somewhat different from the stats (and the demand for single guys much higher).  I can have all the fun I want with people I meet in "the real world", outside the organised scene, and the scene hardly accounts for any fun in my life, apart from meeting a few great friends there, in fact, I never knew I was a "problem" as a single guy until I got involved with the scene; rreally says it all, doesn't it?

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Well, that's my two cents!  If you want to open a dialogue, my wife and I are mid-thirties, attractive, healthy, athletic adults who are a step or two behind you.  Perhaps we could compare notes and help each other along? 

Also it is important for them to show Mr Horny some respect as if he is not happy then I'm not happy and vice versa. Anal sex require a lot of patience and control, can be painful or orgasmic, and for sure a big man makes it very difficult to start.

Hey, that was just my .02 - glad I got that off my chest, now go ahead, start yelling and screaming, what do I care; I am doing so much better outside sdc anyway ...

Master/Slave

I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry!

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I believe thats because it is the ultimate form of submission and requires an enormous level of trust for a woman to be comfortable in allowing entry or even considering it in the most taboo of places sexually The Key is hygiene-Don't want nasty pathogens interfering with play or health-enemas are excellent for removing unwanted potential accidents and embarrasments I can have all the fun I want with people I meet in "the real world", outside the organised scene, and the scene hardly accounts for any fun in my life, apart from meeting a few great friends there, in fact, I never knew I was a "problem" as a single guy until I got involved with the scene; rreally says it all, doesn't it?

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For us to even consider a single guy it firstly depends on the email they have sent, the one liner kind with only cock shots attached get deleted straight away. Then I will look at their profile and if it is one of these profiles where no effort has been made with it and contains a few words and the pics are of his cock from different angles then again it puts me right off. Also we look at the validations these will often tell you alot! To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂

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We still wonder why profiles, without pictures, are allowed? That will be a good selection to prevent fakers and people who are just curious. We must admit that we don't have recognizable pictures because of that. Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home. My husband and I have validated couples who have accepted our validations but have not validated us in both find this to be discourteous, being that a validation proves that we are a real couple.

My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in. 

So this covers the swingers sex in Fordwich but if you want other locations in Kent then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try.  We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home. I think more guys should try anal sex! you straight guys dont know what you are missing! I have been fucked in the arse by girls with strap-on's and bi guys, it feels great and makes for the most intense orgasms! Guys have their 'G' spot located in their ass so any penetration directly stimulates this, there are lots of web sites giving advice for men and women about giving and taking anal sex, just type 'anal sex advice' into google and see! But for lifestylin, single guys could never make a lifestyle.  But couples could.

FMM Threesomes in Westerham

Westerham in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.


So they are the latest in Westerham looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Local Swingers in Westerham. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Westerham. Personally I also think people should not take the piss on people who choose not to post pics as long as they behave correctly.It's their good and hones right not to, for whatever  reason they might have.They pay so they can present their profile the way they please.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Westerham. A lot of women do not consider it a pleasurable form of sex, because either, their first experinece was not a pleasurable one or because their partners were into pleasing themselves and not taking care for giving her pleasure.

I believe but I think many of other member will agree with me sometimes when we go into different type of sex act, woman think different from man, and I believe that is true about anal sex, for my experience your female partner as to be really involved with you or she really likes it. Let you wife know how much you love her, how much you enjoyed participating in her pleasure, and that her actions do not at all change who she is.  She is simply a healthy, beautiful, adult woman who lived out her wildest fantasies one evening.  Encourage her to come clean about any part of the evening that she either regrets or didn't truly enjoy.  Perhaps the man with the three fingers inside her was a bit creepy, but she was uncomfortable stopping him under the circumstances.  If she knows she is in control, and can engage in only whatever she wants she may be more likely to try one more time.  The key is to not pressure her for a repeat performance.  Maybe next time she'll just want to have sex with you and enjoy the atmosphere?  Maybe she'll want to watch you with another woman?  Either way, let her know that there isn't any pressure for her to outdo herself.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. OK, I know you all are great at giving advice, so I could really use your help.  My wife and I have been really busy with a new business we started, and I want to take her away from it all. But there is the deliberate perpetually single but still wanting pussy guy.  These guys harvest and walk, which does not do a lot to make a supply of secure fun women in the world. The sex map below shows local women to you in Westerham that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Westerham that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

For us to even consider a single guy it firstly depends on the email they have sent, the one liner kind with only cock shots attached get deleted straight away. Then I will look at their profile and if it is one of these profiles where no effort has been made with it and contains a few words and the pics are of his cock from different angles then again it puts me right off. Also we look at the validations these will often tell you alot! Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. I (Jezabel) do both,,, it all depends how kinky the moment is... it taste good for me... and hell!!! what man does not get turned over his eyeballs with a good, deep, FINISHED in our mouth blow job?... What is the actual turn on for the Husband /B.F during the swinging proccess ?What do they really like to see /?  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. I am looking for a strap that is comfortable to wear and use. I have wasted money on a couple so far and am looking for suggestions.   And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. I can have all the fun I want with people I meet in "the real world", outside the organised scene, and the scene hardly accounts for any fun in my life, apart from meeting a few great friends there, in fact, I never knew I was a "problem" as a single guy until I got involved with the scene; rreally says it all, doesn't it?

And to attitude in general; the established scene, clubs, bars, house parties etc. seems to have a strange attitude; single guys are only just tolerated, if ever, they are told how to behave, what to do and when to perform and are often treated worse than a street hooker, and everything is in the hands of the couples who are allowed anything and everything, just because they are a couple, yet the single guys are often the ones actually paying for the party. Strange attitude; what kind of single guys do you expect to meet at a venue like that? 😉 So, I am curious to how many girlies are really bi, and like three-somes or just say they are because it's vogue. Being a Bi-fem, myself, I am amazed at how many fems say they are but when it comes to it don't do it.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. We are new to the lifestyle and have a problem with hurting peoples feelings, so we'd like to know the best way to excuse ourselves out of partying with a couple we've partied with before. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. I believe but I think many of other member will agree with me sometimes when we go into different type of sex act, woman think different from man, and I believe that is true about anal sex, for my experience your female partner as to be really involved with you or she really likes it.

I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search. Well, that's my two cents!  If you want to open a dialogue, my wife and I are mid-thirties, attractive, healthy, athletic adults who are a step or two behind you.  Perhaps we could compare notes and help each other along? 

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Also it is important for them to show Mr Horny some respect as if he is not happy then I'm not happy and vice versa.

But reality in society is that almost everything is based on visual feedback, especially SEX So if you dont post pics, dont be depressed about not getting any mails or answers to mails you send, as it also is everybodies good right NOT to respond to mails without pics. Here is the question. Why is it that most all profiles have more pictures of the ladies and NONE of the that we have anything against seeing a sexy lady in a picture.

Looks to me that so many "so-called swingers" are just so desperate to secure whatever they happen to be looking for that, in their narrow mind, swinging is about just that and nothing else, in fact, I am really glad if I do not fit into their picture 🙂

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We have experienced that the single males out there are nice to us at the parties, but after a while they (not all) seem to have gone too far by always being around us or start to doing the chicken (puffing out their chest with attitude for some odd reason), even after we say that we are not interested in single males.  Then sometimes they ask if they can just watch.

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Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search.

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We're looking for women or couple to play dirty with us. I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent.

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I recently had the experience of losing conciousness after a huge series of orgasms. With the last orgasm I passed out, only for a few seconds or so, and then 'came' . My has talked a ton about being with another She doesn't have any girlfriends to play with, and is not anxious just to meet a couple for one thing sex. Any thougthts on how to break the ice? How many young couples, single females and males are out there it becomes evident when viewing the site that 80% of swingers are over 35 I was wondering how many young swingers are really out there?

Why is it so hard to get any replys from genuine bi females for a meet with a lovely geniune cpl??????

So this covers the swingers sex in Westerham but if you want other locations in Kent then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

There is the nice single guy lookin for Ms. Right, but fuckin multiples in the meantime guy.  These guys are more inclined to find a relationship than to make one if they have been at it very long.  Some of these guys are also in category 2. Most of married folks are of the opinion that you make what you want in a realtionship. Lastly if I do decide I am interested in chatting with a single guy with a view to meeting then it depends on how they "behave" when chatting. If they are the kind that are only intersted in seeing pics or wanting a webcam show etc then they have blown it. If they can't hold a conversation unless they are being sleezy then they have blown it. Why is it so hard to get any replys from genuine bi females for a meet with a lovely geniune cpl??????

Wife Swapping in Northfleet

Northfleet in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.


So they are the latest in Northfleet looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Slutty Sex in Northfleet. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Northfleet. Thats one thing we always try to do... Show ourself's as we are... we are here because we don't hide what we are and who we are... we try to up-load new, fun, sexy pics as often  as we can... all for your and our plesure... We feel that if no pic's (real ones) no party... that simple.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Northfleet. OK, I know you all are great at giving advice, so I could really use your help.  My wife and I have been really busy with a new business we started, and I want to take her away from it all.

I want to swing but just dont know to get hubby to do it. I need some advice on how to go about asking him with sounding like I am not interested in him anymore lol. I don't want to do anything graphic but would really like to have some fun, sexy images that have not been taken by me (using the timer on my camera). 

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. It has become a very popular for women I have met to want to see 2 men (usually their husband) have oral sex with another guy.Are there a lot of women that like this? You should really have a heart-to-heart with your wife (if you haven't already) to find out what is truly bothering her.  Perhaps she pushed herself too far past her own comfort zone just for your benefit?  I don't doubt that she enjoyed herself (what healthy woman wouldn't?!), but women tend to dwell on and regret things that men can simply put behind them.  Your wife is probably torn in her own mind about the kind of person she is, and did her actions now define her as a "slut".  The obvious negative connotations can be very disturbing for her. The sex map below shows local women to you in Northfleet that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Northfleet that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

I think that arguing or trying to make a point over the internet or through a blog or a thread is like Running in the Special Olympics.....Even if you make your point, and your right and you win, You are still retarded!!!!. Booty Calls are on a First Come First Serve basis. If you want some action and you are not local, then you should try better early planning. I don't know about the rest of you, but if I am tired and it is 3am, then the only thing getting me out of my bed is if my house is on fire!!!! I am just being honest. If you are horny and it is local, then that is a whole different type of alarm that can certainly be addressed, and promptly. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Well it finally happened while I was gone...but it only took a year and a half of her calling him to come over. I just don't get it. Seems like it would be a no brainer for a guy to meet up with a girl who is offering free no strings sex, especially when the male half is away and has personally talked to the guy and given explicit permission to do as he pleases to his wife. What is the world coming to? Now what are the chances of me finding a female who would meet up with me next month while she is out of town? If my wife can't hardly get anyone to, I must be SOL. Also it is important for them to show Mr Horny some respect as if he is not happy then I'm not happy and vice versa.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. Anal sex require a lot of patience and control, can be painful or orgasmic, and for sure a big man makes it very difficult to start.  And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. What are your thoughts...Love 'em, hate 'em...Wanna shoot 'em? Do you feel they bring down the life style or add someting positive to it. If you are looking for single guys, does appearence matter as much as performance, or is it simply a hunt for Moby Dick! Are you offended by single guys at events who get too close uninvited or is this a turn on! What is the proper approach, asuming walking over and pulling out your package is not the way...

Girlfriend, you definitely shouldn't have any problems getting any kind of booty call day or night. A quiet rural location, impressive newly built red brick cottage, ample parking, outdoor grounds, playrooms, chillout room, extensive social lounge, Dungeon playroom. photo in our profile pics. Funky house tunes, chilllout, dance, and trance.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. We have been in the lifestyle a little under 2 years. We always make sure our profile is accurate . By this I mean that our weights , ages, and pictures are truthful and  current. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. First of all to the (few?) ignorant people (sorry, I do not see any reason to be polite there 🙂 who believe that swinging is a couples lifestyle; it is all about a state of mind, being single M or F, couple or whatever has absolutely nothing to do with it! Believeing that people change their mindset every time they marry/divorce or otherwise drift in and out of relationships is not really realistic is it?

Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x  I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.  

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I am looking for a strap that is comfortable to wear and use. I have wasted money on a couple so far and am looking for suggestions. 

My husband is an expert with anal sex. I didn't like it either because it hurt at first. Then he taught me how to relax my sphincter and now I can take just about anything in there. I love dp but can't always find the right guys to do it with. Some guys are just so homophobic they can't stand the idea of their cocks being even near other cocks, or brushing up against another one (which sometimes happens with dp). Come on guys - relax ! It's true...the back-door is always the best way in. its true that a lot of guys are homophobic and rules them out of an awesome DP....they dont know what theyre missing. I believe it adds an other demension to love-making. 

How about long and thick?  I am about 10 and quite thick would you like that?  I personally like all types of ladies but ladies that enjoy anal and especially dp are the best and my favorite.

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My wife and I just got our first invitation to a Voyeur Events party and we are unsure of whether or not we will go.  I have no problem with the idea of her finding pleasure the way your wife did.

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Single guys on this site are the same as anything else - some are genuine respectful nice guys and others are a pain in the arse! You can' lump them all together....however, being honest we have come across more that have been a pain in the arse, which is a shame as it often makes it harder for the "nice guys". Why do some couples advertise for SMs in ther profiles, and ask them to send e-mails, but block them from sending e-mails? I have noticed it more than just a hand full of times. 

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You should really have a heart-to-heart with your wife (if you haven't already) to find out what is truly bothering her.  Perhaps she pushed herself too far past her own comfort zone just for your benefit?  I don't doubt that she enjoyed herself (what healthy woman wouldn't?!), but women tend to dwell on and regret things that men can simply put behind them.  Your wife is probably torn in her own mind about the kind of person she is, and did her actions now define her as a "slut".  The obvious negative connotations can be very disturbing for her. I recently had the experience of losing conciousness after a huge series of orgasms. With the last orgasm I passed out, only for a few seconds or so, and then 'came' .

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I LOVE the taste of cum, always swallow it all !!!!! Single guys on this site are the same as anything else - some are genuine respectful nice guys and others are a pain in the arse! You can' lump them all together....however, being honest we have come across more that have been a pain in the arse, which is a shame as it often makes it harder for the "nice guys". Why would someone be intrested in someone esle that they have no idea what they look like? I mean as superficial as that might sound... We are all here for the same reason and well pictures really help in responses to your emails! I will be honest I do not even open emails with no pictures soooooooooooooo how about uplaoding pictures!!! 

Lastly if I do decide I am interested in chatting with a single guy with a view to meeting then it depends on how they "behave" when chatting. If they are the kind that are only intersted in seeing pics or wanting a webcam show etc then they have blown it. If they can't hold a conversation unless they are being sleezy then they have blown it.

So this covers the swingers sex in Northfleet but if you want other locations in Kent then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

What are your thoughts...Love 'em, hate 'em...Wanna shoot 'em? Do you feel they bring down the life style or add someting positive to it. If you are looking for single guys, does appearence matter as much as performance, or is it simply a hunt for Moby Dick! Are you offended by single guys at events who get too close uninvited or is this a turn on! What is the proper approach, asuming walking over and pulling out your package is not the way... My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in.  How many young couples, single females and males are out there it becomes evident when viewing the site that 80% of swingers are over 35 I was wondering how many young swingers are really out there?

Swinger Parties in Canterbury

Canterbury in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.


So they are the latest in Canterbury looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Sluts in Canterbury. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Canterbury. God did not put those two holes together just so you can pick a women up like a six pack when shes drunk its for fun sue loves it.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Canterbury. In my experience, roughly 70% have swallowed and 30% spit.The most interesting are the women who swallow and then her husband tells me that she never swallows...one even told me that she never gives head...

I like it in principle, but no matter what we do, it is just way too PAINFUL! Is a shame as I like vaginal DP, so am sure that the kinkyness of proper DP is mindblowing physically, and deliciously slutty mentally, but alas, not for me. x I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry!

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. I can have all the fun I want with people I meet in "the real world", outside the organised scene, and the scene hardly accounts for any fun in my life, apart from meeting a few great friends there, in fact, I never knew I was a "problem" as a single guy until I got involved with the scene; rreally says it all, doesn't it? I want to swing but just dont know to get hubby to do it. I need some advice on how to go about asking him with sounding like I am not interested in him anymore lol. The sex map below shows local women to you in Canterbury that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Canterbury that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

Hello all, I love to give Anal, at this point of my life I think is my favorite, and in many of my relationship I got in trouble for it because many woman refuse it no matter what. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. This is my first time ever on one of these sites.  I took my wife to a Voyeur Events party.  We never did anything like that before.  Aside from some fantasizing, we never did anything out of the ordinary.   After a half hour, she participated in the bondage show, went in the back room and was making out in the nude with another woman while a man sucked her breasts and another man had three fingers inside her.   It is really funny you mention it. We don't always have the time to set them up very often but when we do we never have any luck. Recently I (he) was out of town for 4 days and she had to stay back and work. There is one guy in paticular that she really wanted to be with and he has said time and time again he would love to but every time he comes up with the dumbest of excuses as to why he can't.   Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. How many of you read comments of others on Swingers Forum or Blogs, or do you merely read the topic heading ?Are you more likely to read comments when you make your own?  And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. I guess that  we live in a time now where you can't trust too many people to do what is right or expect that  anymore.  To close I have been a swinger for 20 years and single males were always apart of the lifestyle, and always will be.  I even think that they were the ones that started it as a way to have sex with couples starting back in the time of Rome.   

You should really have a heart-to-heart with your wife (if you haven't already) to find out what is truly bothering her.  Perhaps she pushed herself too far past her own comfort zone just for your benefit?  I don't doubt that she enjoyed herself (what healthy woman wouldn't?!), but women tend to dwell on and regret things that men can simply put behind them.  Your wife is probably torn in her own mind about the kind of person she is, and did her actions now define her as a "slut".  The obvious negative connotations can be very disturbing for her. I think more guys should try anal sex! you straight guys dont know what you are missing! I have been fucked in the arse by girls with strap-on's and bi guys, it feels great and makes for the most intense orgasms! Guys have their 'G' spot located in their ass so any penetration directly stimulates this, there are lots of web sites giving advice for men and women about giving and taking anal sex, just type 'anal sex advice' into google and see!

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. My wife and I just got our first invitation to a Voyeur Events party and we are unsure of whether or not we will go.  I have no problem with the idea of her finding pleasure the way your wife did. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. And this just doesn't go for single males also, we have been with couples where the other male starts to do the same.  I/we personally don't want a single male in our sex life, but understand many do.  So, we really aren't bothered by them too much as long as understand they don't have a chance with us/me.   

If you don't mind me asking, what is the biggest penis you ladies feel comfortable taking?  I know anal takes time and prep, but does that mean that you will be able to take up to 12 inches.  How many of you read comments of others on Swingers Forum or Blogs, or do you merely read the topic heading ?Are you more likely to read comments when you make your own?

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Here's a bright idea ! If your afraid of being noticed... HIDE YOUR PROFILE FROM TRIAL MEMBERS ! sigh its as simple as that.. that waynon of the  browseres will  see your pictures.AND I highlydoubt that any couple that PAYS for this site is going to rat you outto your family or office. Same thing i tell couples who dont wantsingle men... use the block feature ! the webmaster made these featuresfor these reasons... just use them and stop complaining.

It would seeem to us that there would not be a problem calling up a late night booty call, but there is and belive it or not. It is even difficult to get a single male on short notice these days. Does any one els have this problem? I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent.

I believe but I think many of other member will agree with me sometimes when we go into different type of sex act, woman think different from man, and I believe that is true about anal sex, for my experience your female partner as to be really involved with you or she really likes it.

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I (Jezabel) do both,,, it all depends how kinky the moment is... it taste good for me... and hell!!! what man does not get turned over his eyeballs with a good, deep, FINISHED in our mouth blow job?...

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I find that guys will shy away from this. But my thoughts. How many of you other ladies are turned on by this or am I just a  little wierd. During a mfm threesome the thought of the two men cumming turns me on so much. Now, in contrast, when done with a lot of foreplay, is one of the best orgams women can have. Also DP is a fantasy many women have and not being able to fulfill.

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I am curious how many men are like me and like their wives to have sex with other men?I love for my wife to be a slut. I like to watch her with other guys but also have no problem with her doing this. Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x

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It would seeem to us that there would not be a problem calling up a late night booty call, but there is and belive it or not. It is even difficult to get a single male on short notice these days. Does any one els have this problem? I am a single female looking for a 3some with a man and a women or 2 women.I am very clean and disease free and looking for the same.I live in the broward area and will travel for the right people My suggestion for any one that like to go that way is just go slow, use a lot of foreplay, lube and TLC and will come easy to do.

Well!  That was a nice comment from a single guy.  I'll be sure to put him on the B list.

So this covers the swingers sex in Canterbury but if you want other locations in Kent then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

To the statistics; well let's face some facts here; the majority of swingers are in no way related to anything organised, being websites, clubs etc. and this is especially true for the ones searching for single guys, so real life is somewhat different from the stats (and the demand for single guys much higher).  We met a couple over dinner that were really nice and we ended up back at our place and played.  Everything was fine except the guy had a smoke before we played and that really turned my wife off. I tooo like anal sex. I especially love multiple guys (especially the big ones) doing DP on me. I even want to do some video work doing a small group of hung (9+') guys doing DP on me. I was hoping to do something this weekend as a matter of fact in the Atlanta area but so far no groups of guys have approached me

FFM Threesomes in Sittingbourne

Sittingbourne in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.


So they are the latest in Sittingbourne looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering FMM Threesomes in Sittingbourne. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Sittingbourne. I think that arguing or trying to make a point over the internet or through a blog or a thread is like Running in the Special Olympics.....Even if you make your point, and your right and you win, You are still retarded!!!!. Booty Calls are on a First Come First Serve basis. If you want some action and you are not local, then you should try better early planning. I don't know about the rest of you, but if I am tired and it is 3am, then the only thing getting me out of my bed is if my house is on fire!!!! I am just being honest. If you are horny and it is local, then that is a whole different type of alarm that can certainly be addressed, and promptly.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Sittingbourne. I am an inexperienced female who is interested , but how do I ease into this? Are beginners welcome?  I would hate to offend anyone who may be interested if I find that I'm not completely happy.

To the statistics; well let's face some facts here; the majority of swingers are in no way related to anything organised, being websites, clubs etc. and this is especially true for the ones searching for single guys, so real life is somewhat different from the stats (and the demand for single guys much higher).  Here is the question. Why is it that most all profiles have more pictures of the ladies and NONE of the that we have anything against seeing a sexy lady in a picture.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. If you don't mind me asking, what is the biggest penis you ladies feel comfortable taking?  I know anal takes time and prep, but does that mean that you will be able to take up to 12 inches.  There is single and can't keep one guy.  These guys can be okay, but they don't have the skills to keep one, where the above category chooses not to have one.  A big secret is that a lot of the guys who say they are in category one are actually in category 2. The sex map below shows local women to you in Sittingbourne that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Sittingbourne that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

As a man that enjoys giving pleasure, my experience is that after a woman trys it and she enjoys it, she will become "a backdoor addict"........so no, you are not the only one! Those women that haven't try it they do not know what they are missing; the only thing the need is a man that is willing to give them the pleasure they deserve. Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Some single males are quite nice and polite, and we spent quite nice time altogether. Do you never meet nice people in everyday's life? We all know that there are pushy and boring people, but also nice people. We all know how to get rid of  people who bore us. Swinging world is a specific part of the world, so we should know that what happens.  I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.    Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in.   And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. Let you wife know how much you love her, how much you enjoyed participating in her pleasure, and that her actions do not at all change who she is.  She is simply a healthy, beautiful, adult woman who lived out her wildest fantasies one evening.  Encourage her to come clean about any part of the evening that she either regrets or didn't truly enjoy.  Perhaps the man with the three fingers inside her was a bit creepy, but she was uncomfortable stopping him under the circumstances.  If she knows she is in control, and can engage in only whatever she wants she may be more likely to try one more time.  The key is to not pressure her for a repeat performance.  Maybe next time she'll just want to have sex with you and enjoy the atmosphere?  Maybe she'll want to watch you with another woman?  Either way, let her know that there isn't any pressure for her to outdo herself.

Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it! Well it finally happened while I was gone...but it only took a year and a half of her calling him to come over. I just don't get it. Seems like it would be a no brainer for a guy to meet up with a girl who is offering free no strings sex, especially when the male half is away and has personally talked to the guy and given explicit permission to do as he pleases to his wife. What is the world coming to? Now what are the chances of me finding a female who would meet up with me next month while she is out of town? If my wife can't hardly get anyone to, I must be SOL.

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. Personally I also think people should not take the piss on people who choose not to post pics as long as they behave correctly.It's their good and hones right not to, for whatever  reason they might have.They pay so they can present their profile the way they please. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. Also it is important for them to show Mr Horny some respect as if he is not happy then I'm not happy and vice versa.

In my experience, roughly 70% have swallowed and 30% spit.The most interesting are the women who swallow and then her husband tells me that she never swallows...one even told me that she never gives head... To the statistics; well let's face some facts here; the majority of swingers are in no way related to anything organised, being websites, clubs etc. and this is especially true for the ones searching for single guys, so real life is somewhat different from the stats (and the demand for single guys much higher). 

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A lot of women do not consider it a pleasurable form of sex, because either, their first experinece was not a pleasurable one or because their partners were into pleasing themselves and not taking care for giving her pleasure.

In my experience, roughly 70% have swallowed and 30% spit.The most interesting are the women who swallow and then her husband tells me that she never swallows...one even told me that she never gives head... Now, in contrast, when done with a lot of foreplay, is one of the best orgams women can have. Also DP is a fantasy many women have and not being able to fulfill.

Here is the question. Why is it that most all profiles have more pictures of the ladies and NONE of the that we have anything against seeing a sexy lady in a picture.

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I am looking for a strap that is comfortable to wear and use. I have wasted money on a couple so far and am looking for suggestions. 

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Personally I also think people should not take the piss on people who choose not to post pics as long as they behave correctly.It's their good and hones right not to, for whatever  reason they might have.They pay so they can present their profile the way they please. Girlfriend, you definitely shouldn't have any problems getting any kind of booty call day or night.

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I think more guys should try anal sex! you straight guys dont know what you are missing! I have been fucked in the arse by girls with strap-on's and bi guys, it feels great and makes for the most intense orgasms! Guys have their 'G' spot located in their ass so any penetration directly stimulates this, there are lots of web sites giving advice for men and women about giving and taking anal sex, just type 'anal sex advice' into google and see! Well, that's my two cents!  If you want to open a dialogue, my wife and I are mid-thirties, attractive, healthy, athletic adults who are a step or two behind you.  Perhaps we could compare notes and help each other along? 

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We like our single guy friends, and there is no better designed sex fun than what two guys can do for one girl.  It's an individual choice thing. So, I am curious to how many girlies are really bi, and like three-somes or just say they are because it's vogue. Being a Bi-fem, myself, I am amazed at how many fems say they are but when it comes to it don't do it. All of us married guys are just a pissed off woman away from being single.  So just being single for a while can only be so bad as a character reference.

Wow!! that a lot of single guys love and hate from this group.  I have been in a couple and now single guy and I guess I never had a problem with single males being in the swing scene.  It was always up to my lady if she wanted more males involved in our activities.

So this covers the swingers sex in Sittingbourne but if you want other locations in Kent then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

God did not put those two holes together just so you can pick a women up like a six pack when shes drunk its for fun sue loves it. I guess that  we live in a time now where you can't trust too many people to do what is right or expect that  anymore.  To close I have been a swinger for 20 years and single males were always apart of the lifestyle, and always will be.  I even think that they were the ones that started it as a way to have sex with couples starting back in the time of Rome.    God did not put those two holes together just so you can pick a women up like a six pack when shes drunk its for fun sue loves it.

FMM Threesomes in Gillingham

Gillingham in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.


So they are the latest in Gillingham looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Swinger Parties in Gillingham. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Gillingham. We like our single guy friends, and there is no better designed sex fun than what two guys can do for one girl.  It's an individual choice thing.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Gillingham. Then, she had intercourse (with condom) with a hugely hung male.  Anyway, I actually did not get insecure and was extremely turned on.  I want to do it again, and after getting so into it, she says she felt dirty and never wants to do anything with other people again.  Did any of you ever have this experience and are you as confused and disappointed as I am?  By the way, my wife is extremely hot. 

And this just doesn't go for single males also, we have been with couples where the other male starts to do the same.  I/we personally don't want a single male in our sex life, but understand many do.  So, we really aren't bothered by them too much as long as understand they don't have a chance with us/me.    Does anyone else seek partners who are will to swap bareback, ie no condoms. We are clean and std tested, but just wondering if anyone else desires the feeling that only skin to skin can provide.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. Wow!! that a lot of single guys love and hate from this group.  I have been in a couple and now single guy and I guess I never had a problem with single males being in the swing scene.  It was always up to my lady if she wanted more males involved in our activities. Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it! The sex map below shows local women to you in Gillingham that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Gillingham that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

I don't want to do anything graphic but would really like to have some fun, sexy images that have not been taken by me (using the timer on my camera).  Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. I wish to find some time a lady that really likes it, will be fun for all. Swallowing is great! But sharing is even better either through french kissing or after sex. One favorite is licking a pussy while it is being fucked. Then when both cum the person licking gets a double treat.  🙂  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. Anal used to be just an occassional thing for us.  Although I enjoy it immensely, it takes patience and the right mood.  I can say, anal gives me incredible, over the top orgasms!  Recently (about two months ago) I finally got to enjoy my first DP and I was completely hooked!  Now I'm looking for a third cock to fill my mouth and then you boys can rotate! LOL.  And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. Does anyone else seek partners who are will to swap bareback, ie no condoms. We are clean and std tested, but just wondering if anyone else desires the feeling that only skin to skin can provide.

Single guys on this site are the same as anything else - some are genuine respectful nice guys and others are a pain in the arse! You can' lump them all together....however, being honest we have come across more that have been a pain in the arse, which is a shame as it often makes it harder for the "nice guys". I am looking for a strap that is comfortable to wear and use. I have wasted money on a couple so far and am looking for suggestions. 

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. But the problem with most single guys is that they are too self-absorbed to apply themselves to a relationship for more than a moment, or for more than them getting what they want at a minimum of effort.  Giving them some intimacy can make a woman feel underappreciated. And the women who can take that the best are married, swingers and have a full time devotee to make them happy. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. For us to even consider a single guy it firstly depends on the email they have sent, the one liner kind with only cock shots attached get deleted straight away. Then I will look at their profile and if it is one of these profiles where no effort has been made with it and contains a few words and the pics are of his cock from different angles then again it puts me right off. Also we look at the validations these will often tell you alot!

Swallowing is great! But sharing is even better either through french kissing or after sex. One favorite is licking a pussy while it is being fucked. Then when both cum the person licking gets a double treat.  🙂 I am looking for a strap that is comfortable to wear and use. I have wasted money on a couple so far and am looking for suggestions. 

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My wife and I have always had a very active sex life and love to get caught up in fantasies when we make love

I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search. How many of you read comments of others on Swingers Forum or Blogs, or do you merely read the topic heading ?Are you more likely to read comments when you make your own?

Now, in contrast, when done with a lot of foreplay, is one of the best orgams women can have. Also DP is a fantasy many women have and not being able to fulfill.

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God did not put those two holes together just so you can pick a women up like a six pack when shes drunk its for fun sue loves it.

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As a man that enjoys giving pleasure, my experience is that after a woman trys it and she enjoys it, she will become "a backdoor addict"........so no, you are not the only one! Those women that haven't try it they do not know what they are missing; the only thing the need is a man that is willing to give them the pleasure they deserve. Well, this blog I am writing is to VENT soooooooooo many people write me and I try to respond to every email i get BUT why do some people (you know who you are) not uplaod pictures?

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Hey, that was just my .02 - glad I got that off my chest, now go ahead, start yelling and screaming, what do I care; I am doing so much better outside sdc anyway ... The line that people use that they worry because of discretion is bull. We have children, both small and grown, but we still have pics. The answer to that is easy. LEAVE THE FACE OFF! Someone you know may think it looks like you, but they can't prove it without your face unless you have an identifying body mark, or something. My husband is shy about pics, but we still included one of him dressed. Plus we have others of him in our private pics if someone requests to see more of him.

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Looks to me that so many "so-called swingers" are just so desperate to secure whatever they happen to be looking for that, in their narrow mind, swinging is about just that and nothing else, in fact, I am really glad if I do not fit into their picture 🙂 I am a single female looking for a 3some with a man and a women or 2 women.I am very clean and disease free and looking for the same.I live in the broward area and will travel for the right people Are there ever any swinging clubs or events for those of us who are over 18 but still under 21 to play at other than private parties? I have been dying to bring my man to a club environment to play with swingers.

Are there ever any swinging clubs or events for those of us who are over 18 but still under 21 to play at other than private parties? I have been dying to bring my man to a club environment to play with swingers.

So this covers the swingers sex in Gillingham but if you want other locations in Kent then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

What are your thoughts...Love 'em, hate 'em...Wanna shoot 'em? Do you feel they bring down the life style or add someting positive to it. If you are looking for single guys, does appearence matter as much as performance, or is it simply a hunt for Moby Dick! Are you offended by single guys at events who get too close uninvited or is this a turn on! What is the proper approach, asuming walking over and pulling out your package is not the way... Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it! Also it is important for them to show Mr Horny some respect as if he is not happy then I'm not happy and vice versa.

Swingers in Westgate on Sea

Westgate on Sea in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.


So they are the latest in Westgate on Sea looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Kinky Slags in Westgate on Sea. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Westgate on Sea. Thats one thing we always try to do... Show ourself's as we are... we are here because we don't hide what we are and who we are... we try to up-load new, fun, sexy pics as often  as we can... all for your and our plesure... We feel that if no pic's (real ones) no party... that simple.  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Westgate on Sea. It has become a very popular for women I have met to want to see 2 men (usually their husband) have oral sex with another guy.Are there a lot of women that like this?

I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry! Why would someone be intrested in someone esle that they have no idea what they look like? I mean as superficial as that might sound... We are all here for the same reason and well pictures really help in responses to your emails! I will be honest I do not even open emails with no pictures soooooooooooooo how about uplaoding pictures!!! 

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search. A quiet rural location, impressive newly built red brick cottage, ample parking, outdoor grounds, playrooms, chillout room, extensive social lounge, Dungeon playroom. photo in our profile pics. Funky house tunes, chilllout, dance, and trance. The sex map below shows local women to you in Westgate on Sea that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Westgate on Sea that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

I (Jezabel) do both,,, it all depends how kinky the moment is... it taste good for me... and hell!!! what man does not get turned over his eyeballs with a good, deep, FINISHED in our mouth blow job?... Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. It would seeem to us that there would not be a problem calling up a late night booty call, but there is and belive it or not. It is even difficult to get a single male on short notice these days. Does any one els have this problem? Mmmmm Mmmmm Mmmmmm Well another woman who has found intense pleasure from anal sex.Most of the woman I have had the pleasure of intoducing this to have just like you become quite infatuated with orgasming in this manner.It tends to be whole body orgasms that can and do repeat themselves.Yes and from a mans prospective it is quite erotic...  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. It would seeem to us that there would not be a problem calling up a late night booty call, but there is and belive it or not. It is even difficult to get a single male on short notice these days. Does any one els have this problem?  And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂

I tooo like anal sex. I especially love multiple guys (especially the big ones) doing DP on me. I even want to do some video work doing a small group of hung (9+') guys doing DP on me. I was hoping to do something this weekend as a matter of fact in the Atlanta area but so far no groups of guys have approached me Single guys on this site are the same as anything else - some are genuine respectful nice guys and others are a pain in the arse! You can' lump them all together....however, being honest we have come across more that have been a pain in the arse, which is a shame as it often makes it harder for the "nice guys".

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. Wow!! that a lot of single guys love and hate from this group.  I have been in a couple and now single guy and I guess I never had a problem with single males being in the swing scene.  It was always up to my lady if she wanted more males involved in our activities. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. I am BRAND NEW to swinging.  Here is my .I have become very best friends with a female co-worker and her husband.  They are both very good looking and intellegent.

Then, she had intercourse (with condom) with a hugely hung male.  Anyway, I actually did not get insecure and was extremely turned on.  I want to do it again, and after getting so into it, she says she felt dirty and never wants to do anything with other people again.  Did any of you ever have this experience and are you as confused and disappointed as I am?  By the way, my wife is extremely hot.  Girlfriend, you definitely shouldn't have any problems getting any kind of booty call day or night.

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I can have all the fun I want with people I meet in "the real world", outside the organised scene, and the scene hardly accounts for any fun in my life, apart from meeting a few great friends there, in fact, I never knew I was a "problem" as a single guy until I got involved with the scene; rreally says it all, doesn't it?

My husband is an expert with anal sex. I didn't like it either because it hurt at first. Then he taught me how to relax my sphincter and now I can take just about anything in there. I love dp but can't always find the right guys to do it with. Some guys are just so homophobic they can't stand the idea of their cocks being even near other cocks, or brushing up against another one (which sometimes happens with dp). Come on guys - relax ! We like our single guy friends, and there is no better designed sex fun than what two guys can do for one girl.  It's an individual choice thing.

Wow!! that a lot of single guys love and hate from this group.  I have been in a couple and now single guy and I guess I never had a problem with single males being in the swing scene.  It was always up to my lady if she wanted more males involved in our activities.

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I find that guys will shy away from this. But my thoughts. How many of you other ladies are turned on by this or am I just a  little wierd. During a mfm threesome the thought of the two men cumming turns me on so much.

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It's true...the back-door is always the best way in. its true that a lot of guys are homophobic and rules them out of an awesome DP....they dont know what theyre missing. I believe it adds an other demension to love-making.  And to attitude in general; the established scene, clubs, bars, house parties etc. seems to have a strange attitude; single guys are only just tolerated, if ever, they are told how to behave, what to do and when to perform and are often treated worse than a street hooker, and everything is in the hands of the couples who are allowed anything and everything, just because they are a couple, yet the single guys are often the ones actually paying for the party. Strange attitude; what kind of single guys do you expect to meet at a venue like that? 😉

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I want to swing but just dont know to get hubby to do it. I need some advice on how to go about asking him with sounding like I am not interested in him anymore lol. I am looking for a strap that is comfortable to wear and use. I have wasted money on a couple so far and am looking for suggestions. 

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Girlfriend, you definitely shouldn't have any problems getting any kind of booty call day or night. Does anyone else seek partners who are will to swap bareback, ie no condoms. We are clean and std tested, but just wondering if anyone else desires the feeling that only skin to skin can provide. Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x

I love to swallow my man cum. Also love cum on my tits and face.  You should try to have your man cum on another woman pussy then lick her dry!

So this covers the swingers sex in Westgate on Sea but if you want other locations in Kent then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

I'll volunteer for duty. You should just load up your address book here and you are set. Shoot me an email if you'd like to add me. We like our single guy friends, and there is no better designed sex fun than what two guys can do for one girl.  It's an individual choice thing. I am an inexperienced female who is interested , but how do I ease into this? Are beginners welcome?  I would hate to offend anyone who may be interested if I find that I'm not completely happy.

MMF Threesomes in Orpington

Orpington in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.


So they are the latest in Orpington looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Horny Slags in Orpington. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Orpington. Well, that's my two cents!  If you want to open a dialogue, my wife and I are mid-thirties, attractive, healthy, athletic adults who are a step or two behind you.  Perhaps we could compare notes and help each other along?   There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Orpington. As we go through this sexual adventure, I was wondering (maybe to much time on my hands). What was the most amazing swing experience you have had? 

Well, that's my two cents!  If you want to open a dialogue, my wife and I are mid-thirties, attractive, healthy, athletic adults who are a step or two behind you.  Perhaps we could compare notes and help each other along?  Also it is important for them to show Mr Horny some respect as if he is not happy then I'm not happy and vice versa.

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. Are there ever any swinging clubs or events for those of us who are over 18 but still under 21 to play at other than private parties? I have been dying to bring my man to a club environment to play with swingers. Hey, that was just my .02 - glad I got that off my chest, now go ahead, start yelling and screaming, what do I care; I am doing so much better outside sdc anyway ... The sex map below shows local women to you in Orpington that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Orpington that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Hello all, I love to give Anal, at this point of my life I think is my favorite, and in many of my relationship I got in trouble for it because many woman refuse it no matter what. What is the actual turn on for the Husband /B.F during the swinging proccess ?What do they really like to see /?  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. I think that arguing or trying to make a point over the internet or through a blog or a thread is like Running in the Special Olympics.....Even if you make your point, and your right and you win, You are still retarded!!!!. Booty Calls are on a First Come First Serve basis. If you want some action and you are not local, then you should try better early planning. I don't know about the rest of you, but if I am tired and it is 3am, then the only thing getting me out of my bed is if my house is on fire!!!! I am just being honest. If you are horny and it is local, then that is a whole different type of alarm that can certainly be addressed, and promptly.  And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. It is really funny you mention it. We don't always have the time to set them up very often but when we do we never have any luck. Recently I (he) was out of town for 4 days and she had to stay back and work. There is one guy in paticular that she really wanted to be with and he has said time and time again he would love to but every time he comes up with the dumbest of excuses as to why he can't. 

I can have all the fun I want with people I meet in "the real world", outside the organised scene, and the scene hardly accounts for any fun in my life, apart from meeting a few great friends there, in fact, I never knew I was a "problem" as a single guy until I got involved with the scene; rreally says it all, doesn't it? It would seeem to us that there would not be a problem calling up a late night booty call, but there is and belive it or not. It is even difficult to get a single male on short notice these days. Does any one els have this problem?

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. DP I think a different story, but I think is even more fun. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. I'm available to take action pics even for couples who do not want to interact - I would prefer to obviously but am happy to respect your wishes - it's SO much fun.

I am seeking advice and knowledge from experienced lifestylers. I am looking for women who in the past would have never considered being part of the "lifestyle" and are now very happy that the swiners are here. Wow!! that a lot of single guys love and hate from this group.  I have been in a couple and now single guy and I guess I never had a problem with single males being in the swing scene.  It was always up to my lady if she wanted more males involved in our activities.

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But the problem with most single guys is that they are too self-absorbed to apply themselves to a relationship for more than a moment, or for more than them getting what they want at a minimum of effort.  Giving them some intimacy can make a woman feel underappreciated. And the women who can take that the best are married, swingers and have a full time devotee to make them happy.

I think that arguing or trying to make a point over the internet or through a blog or a thread is like Running in the Special Olympics.....Even if you make your point, and your right and you win, You are still retarded!!!!. Booty Calls are on a First Come First Serve basis. If you want some action and you are not local, then you should try better early planning. I don't know about the rest of you, but if I am tired and it is 3am, then the only thing getting me out of my bed is if my house is on fire!!!! I am just being honest. If you are horny and it is local, then that is a whole different type of alarm that can certainly be addressed, and promptly. Thats one thing we always try to do... Show ourself's as we are... we are here because we don't hide what we are and who we are... we try to up-load new, fun, sexy pics as often  as we can... all for your and our plesure... We feel that if no pic's (real ones) no party... that simple.

But for lifestylin, single guys could never make a lifestyle.  But couples could.

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We are a couple with no experince in this lifestyle but with a lot of Fantasies. We need some advises to realize our fantasies. Should we hire a call girl to have our first threesome??

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Girlfriend, you definitely shouldn't have any problems getting any kind of booty call day or night. Ok we are working on setting up our profile andwere wondering what is ment by completely open. We are brand new and looking for our first experience in thelifestyle and would not be opposed to the idea.

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A couple between the age 22 and 30 to have a couple swap. we are both  new to the scene and a bit inexperience. we need a couple to share in our adventure.  I want to hear from everyone regarding clit and labia size. I'm very often disappointed when I meet a hot woman and start to play with her, only to realize her clit is.

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I truly think that size and technique makes a big difference. There is single and can't keep one guy.  These guys can be okay, but they don't have the skills to keep one, where the above category chooses not to have one.  A big secret is that a lot of the guys who say they are in category one are actually in category 2. I want to swing but just dont know to get hubby to do it. I need some advice on how to go about asking him with sounding like I am not interested in him anymore lol.

I am a streight single guy , and really enjoy helping please a girl in a already established relationship. I am willing to go the extra mile in a direction that is turning her on. 

So this covers the swingers sex in Orpington but if you want other locations in Kent then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

You should really have a heart-to-heart with your wife (if you haven't already) to find out what is truly bothering her.  Perhaps she pushed herself too far past her own comfort zone just for your benefit?  I don't doubt that she enjoyed herself (what healthy woman wouldn't?!), but women tend to dwell on and regret things that men can simply put behind them.  Your wife is probably torn in her own mind about the kind of person she is, and did her actions now define her as a "slut".  The obvious negative connotations can be very disturbing for her. I hope that what i wrote made sense, and I will just say, try it is so much fun, just be very patient and slow, you will enjoy it, as usual have fun be safe. If you don't mind me asking, what is the biggest penis you ladies feel comfortable taking?  I know anal takes time and prep, but does that mean that you will be able to take up to 12 inches.