British Swingers in Lydd

Lydd in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.


So they are the latest in Lydd looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Swingers in Lydd. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Lydd. We have a terrible time with last minute, late night booty calls.  We are looking for the perfect, nearby single male to help us out with that! We have slightly better luck with single females and find that couples normally have conflicting schedules or family commitments and require more planning.  That said, we totally understand family must come first.  We are very busy professionals and parents with extremely hectic schedules and so we cannot criticize others, we understand you're busy too!  There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Lydd. There is single and can't keep one guy.  These guys can be okay, but they don't have the skills to keep one, where the above category chooses not to have one.  A big secret is that a lot of the guys who say they are in category one are actually in category 2.

It would seeem to us that there would not be a problem calling up a late night booty call, but there is and belive it or not. It is even difficult to get a single male on short notice these days. Does any one els have this problem? I guess that  we live in a time now where you can't trust too many people to do what is right or expect that  anymore.  To close I have been a swinger for 20 years and single males were always apart of the lifestyle, and always will be.  I even think that they were the ones that started it as a way to have sex with couples starting back in the time of Rome.   

Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. But the problem with most single guys is that they are too self-absorbed to apply themselves to a relationship for more than a moment, or for more than them getting what they want at a minimum of effort.  Giving them some intimacy can make a woman feel underappreciated. And the women who can take that the best are married, swingers and have a full time devotee to make them happy. We have been in the lifestyle a little under 2 years. We always make sure our profile is accurate . By this I mean that our weights , ages, and pictures are truthful and  current. The sex map below shows local women to you in Lydd that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:

Then there are also men in Lydd that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:

For us to even consider a single guy it firstly depends on the email they have sent, the one liner kind with only cock shots attached get deleted straight away. Then I will look at their profile and if it is one of these profiles where no effort has been made with it and contains a few words and the pics are of his cock from different angles then again it puts me right off. Also we look at the validations these will often tell you alot! Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. Let you wife know how much you love her, how much you enjoyed participating in her pleasure, and that her actions do not at all change who she is.  She is simply a healthy, beautiful, adult woman who lived out her wildest fantasies one evening.  Encourage her to come clean about any part of the evening that she either regrets or didn't truly enjoy.  Perhaps the man with the three fingers inside her was a bit creepy, but she was uncomfortable stopping him under the circumstances.  If she knows she is in control, and can engage in only whatever she wants she may be more likely to try one more time.  The key is to not pressure her for a repeat performance.  Maybe next time she'll just want to have sex with you and enjoy the atmosphere?  Maybe she'll want to watch you with another woman?  Either way, let her know that there isn't any pressure for her to outdo herself. But for lifestylin, single guys could never make a lifestyle.  But couples could.  Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. I am seeking advice and knowledge from experienced lifestylers. I am looking for women who in the past would have never considered being part of the "lifestyle" and are now very happy that the swiners are here.  And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. Theresonses to this should be interesting...Single guys should chime in as well, maybe just to share an experience!  (note: If you post something positive in your response and are not looking for a single guy, you may want to state that in your response to avoidthe 600 emails that will fill up your inbox.)Remember, if it isn't fun, why do it!

I am a single female looking for a 3some with a man and a women or 2 women.I am very clean and disease free and looking for the same.I live in the broward area and will travel for the right people My wife and I are new to the swinging action and need to be taught. Would like to have a couple that is close to help break us in. 

Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. But reality in society is that almost everything is based on visual feedback, especially SEX So if you dont post pics, dont be depressed about not getting any mails or answers to mails you send, as it also is everybodies good right NOT to respond to mails without pics. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. But for lifestylin, single guys could never make a lifestyle.  But couples could.

All of us married guys are just a pissed off woman away from being single.  So just being single for a while can only be so bad as a character reference. I hope that what i wrote made sense, and I will just say, try it is so much fun, just be very patient and slow, you will enjoy it, as usual have fun be safe.

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But the problem with most single guys is that they are too self-absorbed to apply themselves to a relationship for more than a moment, or for more than them getting what they want at a minimum of effort.  Giving them some intimacy can make a woman feel underappreciated. And the women who can take that the best are married, swingers and have a full time devotee to make them happy.

 I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced.  All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings.  The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and  no means no.  While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends.  I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart.   I am an inexperienced female who is interested , but how do I ease into this? Are beginners welcome?  I would hate to offend anyone who may be interested if I find that I'm not completely happy.

It would seeem to us that there would not be a problem calling up a late night booty call, but there is and belive it or not. It is even difficult to get a single male on short notice these days. Does any one els have this problem?

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And to attitude in general; the established scene, clubs, bars, house parties etc. seems to have a strange attitude; single guys are only just tolerated, if ever, they are told how to behave, what to do and when to perform and are often treated worse than a street hooker, and everything is in the hands of the couples who are allowed anything and everything, just because they are a couple, yet the single guys are often the ones actually paying for the party. Strange attitude; what kind of single guys do you expect to meet at a venue like that? 😉 Perhaps I am too picky, I don't know but I like to feel as if I am being treated with a bit of respect!

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To the people who are claiming that most single men are Neanderthalers; well, you must work on your search for single guys, if you are just soo bad that you are unable to find decent people - says more about you than it does about single guys, so please do not call me 🙂 Girlfriend, you definitely shouldn't have any problems getting any kind of booty call day or night.

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I find that guys will shy away from this. But my thoughts. How many of you other ladies are turned on by this or am I just a  little wierd. During a mfm threesome the thought of the two men cumming turns me on so much. What is the actual turn on for the Husband /B.F during the swinging proccess ?What do they really like to see /? Looks to me that so many "so-called swingers" are just so desperate to secure whatever they happen to be looking for that, in their narrow mind, swinging is about just that and nothing else, in fact, I am really glad if I do not fit into their picture 🙂

I want to swing but just dont know to get hubby to do it. I need some advice on how to go about asking him with sounding like I am not interested in him anymore lol.

So this covers the swingers sex in Lydd but if you want other locations in Kent then you can use our other pages to find more swinging sex near you.

I am seeking advice and knowledge from experienced lifestylers. I am looking for women who in the past would have never considered being part of the "lifestyle" and are now very happy that the swiners are here. And to attitude in general; the established scene, clubs, bars, house parties etc. seems to have a strange attitude; single guys are only just tolerated, if ever, they are told how to behave, what to do and when to perform and are often treated worse than a street hooker, and everything is in the hands of the couples who are allowed anything and everything, just because they are a couple, yet the single guys are often the ones actually paying for the party. Strange attitude; what kind of single guys do you expect to meet at a venue like that? 😉 What is the actual turn on for the Husband /B.F during the swinging proccess ?What do they really like to see /?