Westerham in Kent is excellent for finding swingers and we’ve found lots of them for you by searching the main swinging sites.
So they are the latest in Westerham looking for swinging fun so they are very likely offering Local Swingers in Westerham. Many are looking for hot group sex and so are a couple that want to join in with sex parties or orgies and some couples want one more partner for their threesome and so you can easily find hot swinger sex in Westerham. I am curious how many men are like me and like their wives to have sex with other men?I love for my wife to be a slut. I like to watch her with other guys but also have no problem with her doing this. There are then also cool swinger clubs and sex parties arranged by swingers so you can have all sorts of hot swinging fun in Westerham. I like it in principle, but no matter what we do, it is just way too PAINFUL! Is a shame as I like vaginal DP, so am sure that the kinkyness of proper DP is mindblowing physically, and deliciously slutty mentally, but alas, not for me. x
My wife and I have always had a very active sex life and love to get caught up in fantasies when we make love Just curious about peoples takes on this subject. There is nothing like meeting a couple that is not what they advertise. People need to update their photos - don't you think?
Another great way to find swingers is on adult dating sites as lots of them love hooking up with swingers as they love group sex. A lot of women do not consider it a pleasurable form of sex, because either, their first experinece was not a pleasurable one or because their partners were into pleasing themselves and not taking care for giving her pleasure. I never had a rude single and I have never been one so I can't really relate to the difficulties that some have experienced. All I can say that this is a lifestyle that is about pleasure, enjoyment and hedonistic followings. The only rules we are to follow is respect for each other and no means no. While I was a couple my lady would swing alone and even got pregnant from one of her male friends. I did not try to control her I was happy for all the pleasure she got when we were together and apart. The sex map below shows local women to you in Westerham that are looking for casual sex and so may well be interested in swinging:
Then there are also men in Westerham that love sex and so may well join you in your threesome or group sex:
Swallow swallow swallow!!!Was never a big fan of getting messy so would never like it 'on' me (though warming to it slowly), and spitting seems positively rude!I also agree, the deep pasionate french kiss thing is wonderfully sexy with cum -with another woman, or a man, if they are mature enough to get over thinking it's 'icky'x Lots of swingers are looking for hot group sex and so may need a partner for their threesome. But reality in society is that almost everything is based on visual feedback, especially SEX So if you dont post pics, dont be depressed about not getting any mails or answers to mails you send, as it also is everybodies good right NOT to respond to mails without pics. And to attitude in general; the established scene, clubs, bars, house parties etc. seems to have a strange attitude; single guys are only just tolerated, if ever, they are told how to behave, what to do and when to perform and are often treated worse than a street hooker, and everything is in the hands of the couples who are allowed anything and everything, just because they are a couple, yet the single guys are often the ones actually paying for the party. Strange attitude; what kind of single guys do you expect to meet at a venue like that? 😉 Some will want a FFM threesome as they love the idea of another woman but lots want a MMF threesome and so will want a man to join them as they want two men having sex with the woman at the same time. Anal used to be just an occassional thing for us. Although I enjoy it immensely, it takes patience and the right mood. I can say, anal gives me incredible, over the top orgasms! Recently (about two months ago) I finally got to enjoy my first DP and I was completely hooked! Now I'm looking for a third cock to fill my mouth and then you boys can rotate! LOL. And then there aw swinger sex parties and orgies where lots of couples or single women or men join in with hot group sex, some are at clubs and some are at swingers homes but they are all very hot. But reality in society is that almost everything is based on visual feedback, especially SEX So if you dont post pics, dont be depressed about not getting any mails or answers to mails you send, as it also is everybodies good right NOT to respond to mails without pics.
But the problem with most single guys is that they are too self-absorbed to apply themselves to a relationship for more than a moment, or for more than them getting what they want at a minimum of effort. Giving them some intimacy can make a woman feel underappreciated. And the women who can take that the best are married, swingers and have a full time devotee to make them happy. The line that people use that they worry because of discretion is bull. We have children, both small and grown, but we still have pics. The answer to that is easy. LEAVE THE FACE OFF! Someone you know may think it looks like you, but they can't prove it without your face unless you have an identifying body mark, or something. My husband is shy about pics, but we still included one of him dressed. Plus we have others of him in our private pics if someone requests to see more of him.
Then another hot topic in swinging is wife swapping so lots of men like to see their wife fucked so if you want sex with another mans wife then you can do that. I guess you're right, but a lot of people here like their privacy or sometimes the lifestyle is a secret part of their lifes and they want to keep it that way for some reason, I say: better to know them here before we can exchange numbers or get to the date part of our search. Some unmarried couples also do this and so allow the girlfriend to be fucked by other men as some men just love to see their wife or girlfriend used by another man. Well, this blog I am writing is to VENT soooooooooo many people write me and I try to respond to every email i get BUT why do some people (you know who you are) not uplaod pictures?
We have been in the lifestyle a little under 2 years. We always make sure our profile is accurate . By this I mean that our weights , ages, and pictures are truthful and current. In my experience, roughly 70% have swallowed and 30% spit.The most interesting are the women who swallow and then her husband tells me that she never swallows...one even told me that she never gives head...
Local Swingers in WesterhamWe have been on this sight for about a month now and it seems to us its no different than AFF. I mean we are having no luck hooking up! None seems seriuos, do they just come here and look at pic.
I don't want to do anything graphic but would really like to have some fun, sexy images that have not been taken by me (using the timer on my camera). I (Jezabel) do both,,, it all depends how kinky the moment is... it taste good for me... and hell!!! what man does not get turned over his eyeballs with a good, deep, FINISHED in our mouth blow job?...Hello all, I love to give Anal, at this point of my life I think is my favorite, and in many of my relationship I got in trouble for it because many woman refuse it no matter what.
But there is the deliberate perpetually single but still wanting pussy guy. These guys harvest and walk, which does not do a lot to make a supply of secure fun women in the world.
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First of all to the (few?) ignorant people (sorry, I do not see any reason to be polite there 🙂 who believe that swinging is a couples lifestyle; it is all about a state of mind, being single M or F, couple or whatever has absolutely nothing to do with it! Believeing that people change their mindset every time they marry/divorce or otherwise drift in and out of relationships is not really realistic is it? Why is it so hard to get any replys from genuine bi females for a meet with a lovely geniune cpl??????
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God did not put those two holes together just so you can pick a women up like a six pack when shes drunk its for fun sue loves it. I think more guys should try anal sex! you straight guys dont know what you are missing! I have been fucked in the arse by girls with strap-on's and bi guys, it feels great and makes for the most intense orgasms! Guys have their 'G' spot located in their ass so any penetration directly stimulates this, there are lots of web sites giving advice for men and women about giving and taking anal sex, just type 'anal sex advice' into google and see!
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Well, that's my two cents! If you want to open a dialogue, my wife and I are mid-thirties, attractive, healthy, athletic adults who are a step or two behind you. Perhaps we could compare notes and help each other along? I like it in principle, but no matter what we do, it is just way too PAINFUL! Is a shame as I like vaginal DP, so am sure that the kinkyness of proper DP is mindblowing physically, and deliciously slutty mentally, but alas, not for me. x We like our single guy friends, and there is no better designed sex fun than what two guys can do for one girl. It's an individual choice thing.I think more guys should try anal sex! you straight guys dont know what you are missing! I have been fucked in the arse by girls with strap-on's and bi guys, it feels great and makes for the most intense orgasms! Guys have their 'G' spot located in their ass so any penetration directly stimulates this, there are lots of web sites giving advice for men and women about giving and taking anal sex, just type 'anal sex advice' into google and see!
Personally I also think people should not take the piss on people who choose not to post pics as long as they behave correctly.It's their good and hones right not to, for whatever reason they might have.They pay so they can present their profile the way they please. My suggestion for any one that like to go that way is just go slow, use a lot of foreplay, lube and TLC and will come easy to do. Well hell honey, guess your calling up the wrong ones. We try to accomodate couples or single ladies when they need some hot sex. However there is always going to be that one time or two that depending on whats going on the next day we just can't do it. No one can just jump up and go out for hot sex at any time, but like we said, we try. We have even driven 175 miles both ways to meet at a hotel, fuck, then drive back home.